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July 2nd, by Nick Notas 97 Comments. This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for the youngest age of a woman a man can date. So a year old guy can date a year old girl. But many people in society still look down upon older men dating younger girls. This taboo makes some of my clients feel shameful about their age preferences.

My own father is 10 years older than my mother. On average, men in all societies date younger women. Those Hollywood actors who have options almost always choose young women.

Men are more visually stimulated than women. Our main attraction switches are a youthful, healthy physical appearance. We want to ensure healthy offspring. Any way you want to look at it, complications such as down syndrome and miscarriages in pregnancy rise with age. So it makes perfect sense that men are driven to younger women who have the lowest risk factors.

Since they were teenagers, many women have idolized older men. They would drop everything for an opportunity to be with one of those guys. So I find it hilarious when I see women hate on older men for chasing younger girls when they themselves often find older men sexy. Studies show that women mature sooner than men. Those guys tend to earn better wages and therefore be better providers. And they generally have more self-confidence as they know who they are. Maybe you like blondes. Maybe you like tall people.

Maybe you find Asians to be irresistible. Did you consciously choose to like those qualities throughout your life? Or do they just make you hot and tingly all over? And thinking young women are sexy falls into that category — you have nothing to be ashamed of.

When it comes to this subject, older men are painted as shallow horndogs manipulating younger women. While women are seen as helpless victims. But what about all the couples who fall into this category including my parents who are in love or married for decades? Are you saying these women are coerced and manipulated into being with these men? These women are willingly and happily choosing these men.

That in itself may be the most disempowering, anti-feminist view I can think of. As long as both parties are legal, then there is nothing wrong with an age gap in a relationship. Consistently escalate your dates from friendly to flirty. Sign up below to get immediate access to the First Date Field Manual. Yeah, it can feel a bit weird because of our own internal shame. But you just have to remember that your desires are normal and healthy. I get what you mean by women being passive a lot of the time.

I can't speak for all ladies, but I have previously refrained from approaching men because I was scared of rejection. It's definitely uncommon to see women taking the initiative to approach men, but it does happen more often than you might expect. A year ago, I approached a guy in his early 30s at a convenience store and asked him for his number. I found him attractive not necessarily "good looking" and thought "ah what the hell".

I was 22 at the time I'm 23 now , and we've been dating happily ever since. The same thing happened to me! I initiated things and it became a sexual relationship.

We are both extremely happy. It works very well because we are both career oriented and I am very mature for my age which not all women in their early twenties are. We got very lucky and found love.

But if you just want to have fun and like younger women, go for it! That happens to me a lot but I feel lack of self-confidence in that issue. I mean, I live in a country where most people are very traditional in that matter. I personally have always been attracted to women of all ages. I look at it like this, young women for young men, older women for older men. It makes since that way. Let young men play, you had your chance lol! I love telling people my dad was older than my grandfather and then watching them try to figure that one out.

My father was 29 years older than my mother. My dad was 65 when I was born. Are you the grandfather? When I was 20 I always dated older women, like 25, they were always sexier, and more sophisticated.

When I was 35 it felt weird asking out a 25 year old. Many men get better with age. My girlfriend right now is 24, we have been together for a year. When she first told her parents about us, they were concerned, but after a while, she told me, that they saw how happy she was, not just with me but how a more mature outlook on life made her happier all around. Men who take good care of themselves are better often in better shape at 35 and 45 than they were at Who can give the kids more mature and calm advice.

Women have a biological window to have kids that ends fairly early, but men, in my opinion, tend to be better fathers later in life. American society would like to convince us that we should all date someone close to our own age, but the truth is age is just a number.

The most important thing for me is whether we feel safe sharing how we feel; being raw with each other. And we are connected by the ability to share those feelings. They have their own issues to deal with. You are the only one responsible for your own happiness. I agree with you that many guys are in better shape later on in life. People just need to get over the stigma and their own limiting beliefs. Alternatively, they might know my age already, and then withdraw at any hint of things becoming more ongoing or intimate.

Maybe not for themselves, but for what their friends or family might think? I think that you are exactly right that often women this age may feel that friends, family or society in general will not accept you as a couple.

This is one reason why famous older guys can get away with dating younger women much more easily. I think it shows insecurity. They all squirm a bit with discomfort. This goes for the reverse as well. For example, joking that my tie is as old as they are which is often true. I find some women love the maturity, confidence and things that we considered normal in our generation.

Flowers, opening car doors, hand written cards with love notes inside. Often you can get an idea of which women are confident enough to go for what they want despite what friends and family think by susing out their views on other similar subjects.

Please take a look at my modest blog. My few post are just a few added prices of advice. To overcome that issue I usually will take a girl out for drinks. Then when we are both sauced up i take her into a bathroom stall and whip it out. Whether or not you can take care of them very much IS. I am 25 years old and I have always been attracted to older men. My ex-boyfriend is in his late 40s. It is not really about the age, it is all about preference.

On second place, older men go crazy especially on dating sites, they want to make up for all the years they stayed married.

This is my WORST story about dating an older man; I went out with a 51 year old man 3 months ago; he was gorgeous, intelligent, well-educated but he turned out to be the biggest liar I have ever known. It was sickening, he would lie about everything.

First, he said he was 48 and he was He said he lied about his age for fear of rejection. Second, he told me he was divorced, a month later, his wife called me, and told me about their problems, his infidelities, other women. This man had more secrets than the CIA.

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I am in that age group and wonder a lot about where my life is going now. I hate to think that i have noting to look forward to anymore. But the idea of having a friend with benefits sounds good to me. Some how I missed the last 15 or 20 years of my life. While being busy raising my kids and getting them off to college, I loss my 10 year companion, whom I had plan to marry as soon as we both got the our children out of the house. The time just got away. When i looked around I was shock to realize that i was just about 70 years old and not much to pick up and get on with.

This friend started to stop by to check on me some 20 years ago. He was what I consider my company keeper. We laugh, talked, cooked, took classes to together and even started a small business together.

Things went well for the business for about 8 years. The bottom fall out from the economy and my family obligations forced me to let the business go. Now that the kids are gone, parents are gone it is just me. What do I do with myself. I need that friend with benefits just to feel alive. I hired a fella to do a couple of jobs that I need done, like me, he was retired and did handyman jobs to keep busy. I am 69 and he is 60, a perfect match!!

I miss the physical contact for sexual release for both parties. I am very active and am looking for no commitment just meeting for mutual pleasure. Several lady friends are nearby bu they pretty much want work done for nothing so I avoid them! Each to there own. I class myself as a handyman and also looking for a FWB.

Is it good for them? You just have to Go Do It. Make yourself available like you did when You were in your 20s! I like that Joan has created an informational presence as well as a forum for older adults to acknowledge or discuss sexual feelings.

Afterwards, we are always left with trading our time or emotions, or both, for other things needed to survive food, shelter and niceties thereof. Possibly — until you stop to consider how many of us are comfortable with being unpartnered but how few of us are willing to remain untouched.

Sixty-something sexologist Joan Price, for one, endorses "gray hookups," but with a couple of strong caveats: The people involved must be emotionally capable of handling their status as noncommitted bed partners, and they must protect themselves against sexually transmitted diseases.

In a national study conducted in , the Center for Sexual Health Promotion found sex partners over 50 twice as likely to use a condom when they regarded a sexual encounter as casual rather than as part of an ongoing relationship. Mature sex partners do not have the best track record when it comes to using condoms, but at least they're likelier to use them when they know very little about a partner's sexual past — or present!

Personally, I think it all comes down to a very simple choice at any age: Is enduring loneliness, celibacy and extreme horniness really a better option than exchanging a few "simple gifts" between friends? Pepper Schwartz answers your sex, relationships and dating questions in her blog.

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In the meantime, please feel free to search for ways to make a difference in your community at www. Javascript is not enabled. Istock For plus folks, the prospect of a "friend with benefits" is looking less and less like a millennial indulgence. So how do you handle it? What do you have to lose? He's already gone through your life stage, so he's less likely to be threatened when things go well for you. Invest in your own life because you don't want the pressure of financial support to ruin your relationship.

You'll be happiest if you're with him because you like him, not because you don't have any other options. Older guys usually have a lot of things going on in their life. They may have a steady career or even kids. Call them when you say you will. Older men appreciate the forwardness that younger guys can find intimidating. Tell him what you want. Find out what both of you need from a relationship. After a date or two, initiate a conversation about where you see the relationship going long-term.

Consciously consider whether or not your needs are compatible with his. Keep your own life. Remember that a little space can be healthy for a relationship. Make sure you spend some time away from your relationship and encourage him to do the same. You might start to resent each other if you try to be together all the time. Both of you might need a little time to be around people your own age.

You may not like doing all of the same things. Keep doing the things that you enjoy. He might not be able to go with you if you have to move to follow your dreams, so if that's something you might want from a partner, talk to him about it! Understand that he may be already settled into his environment and might not want to change it the way a younger guy might. He may simply enjoy living where he does.

Have frank conversations about finances. An older man may have his finances in order. While it can be nice to be with someone who has financial stability, it can be awkward when you are younger and possibly broke. Be clear on what you're comfortable with. If you aren't excited at being treated to dinner all the time, let him know you'll need to choose some cheaper dates.

It might take a while before he feels comfortable fully bringing you into his personal life. If he has kids, understand that he might not want you to meet them right away. It's unhealthy for kids to frequently get attached to new people they might lose.

Even if you think your relationship is on track, you may need to wait for a year or longer before you get to share time with his children. It may take him a while to admit that he has strong feelings for you. Hopefully your older man doesn't react to his fleeting emotions. Rather, he may take time to be sure how he feels before he tells you.

Remind him that you desire him.

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