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Update as of Oct 3rd When I initially wrote this post it was possible to do everything in one day. However, because the express 1-day documents service is no longer available at the Ministry of Foreign Affairs MFA , you will need 3 days to complete the process — as you have to wait 72 hours before picking up your documents. Also bear in mind that some district offices amphur now have a marriage limit of 8 couples per day, and may require you to make an appointment in advance.
Some people have reported being told that to get married you must have at least 10 days left on your day entry stamp, or tourist visa. If you don't have 10 days remaining, then you need to go to immigration and get a visa extension before you can start the marriage process. Not everyone has encountered this issue. I strongly suggest reading through the latest comments from other readers to get their most recent experiences.
Whether you're a foreign national marrying a Thai national, or a foreign couple coming to Thailand to get married, you'll need to jump through three hoops before you can legally register your marriage. The marriage will only be recognised under the law of your home country if it is valid under Thai law. In other words, simply having a ceremony in Thailand doesn't mean you are legally married. However, I advise leaving a two-day window aside to complete the process just in case you run into a problem.
Remember, if you are both foreign nationals, you will need to consider this process for two. This post focusses on completing the process yourself without an agent. Personally, I prefer to handle things myself, having complete control over efficiency and organisation. Also consider that having an agent doesn't eliminate the first step of the process the trip to the embassy , and costs considerably more. Expect to pay around 4, for the actual process itself.
Your embassy will most likely require you to make an appointment to get your affirmation done. Some do, dome don't. British nationals DO need to make an appointment to get an affirmation. The cost depends on the embassy, but will be around the 3, Baht mark. It costs 2, Thai Baht at the British embassy. Get the earliest appointment you can, closest to the opening time of the embassy, which should be 8am. If your embassy has the affirmation form online, print it out from embassy website before you go, and fill in the relevant sections.
For the British embassy, you will need to print the form. Certificates issued in a third country outside UK and Thailand must be certified by its respective Embassy in Thailand. This certificate, if not in English, must be accompanied by an English translation. Only the original evidence or an official certified copy will be accepted — photocopies will not be accepted under any circumstances. Also take a photocopy of your passport with you when you leave the house. You will need this for Step 3.
Book an early appointment. If your embassy offers a walk-in service, get there at opening time. You now need that affirmation translated into Thai. This will cost between Baht, depending on where you go. That means the photo page and the page above or below it, depending on which country you are from. You will then show this at the Amphur district office at your appointment to marry. If you walk to the top of Wireless Road back toward Pleon Chit BTS station and up over the bridge onto the other side of the road, you'll be standing outside a language school called Language Express.
Go past the school and turn right. Along this side road you'll find a number of reputable translation services. You need to be out of here by They should be able to do the translations within 1 hour. If they say they can't do it so quickly, let them know you can pay a little extra. This might be preferable because the traffic will be dying down just after rush hour.
This journey will cost around Baht. Do take the tollway 60 Baht if the driver suggests it. This route is much quicker. However, if option 1 doesn't work out, this option is a sure thing. If you have a smartphone with a decent size screen, show him on this Google Map. If you can get an early appointment at your embassy, you should be able to make it to the MFA before lunchtime. If you get seen before 12pm, you can use the express service and get your documents back the same day.
When you arrive at the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, if you still need your documents translating, you can choose one of the services downstairs. You will be approached as soon as you enter by touts for the translation services, so do a bit of bartering — starting at Baht. Don't stress too much over Baht or so, just get it done with the company offering the fastest service and move on. You'll have to wait an hour until they come back on duty. Try to get a ticket and get in the queue before they go to lunch.
If you make it through processing before lunch, then great. If not, no worries. Once you have the translation, go to the 3rd floor: Go to the desk straight ahead of you and give in your affirmation and its translation, passport translation and photocopy of your passport to the lady at the desk. Here you will get your documents checked by someone who looks very official. Once you get the okay, you will be asked to take a seat and wait to be called. Unless you have opted for the express service, in which case you will get the documents back the same day.
When you get your documents back, you have completed the process. Keep everything safely together in an envelope. You will need all these documents to present to the Amphur office government office of your choice when you go to register your marriage after the ceremony.
If you've finished early, you could go to a local district office and book an appointment to get married. You might be able to get an appointment for the next day.
When you go to register your marriage at the government office, you will need to take the following documents:. A note for British nationals: You no longer need to file your marriage certificate back in the UK. They did away with that requirement a few years ago. Last Updated on October 3, Oct 25, at Oct 23, at 7: Oct 21, at 2: Oct 20, at 2: Oct 17, at Oct 17, at 6: Oct 16, at 8: Oct 18, at 5: Oct 15, at Oct 15, at 5: Oct 12, at 1: Oct 12, at 5: Oct 12, at Oct 11, at 8: Oct 10, at Oct 10, at 4: Oct 11, at 9: Oct 04, at 2: Oct 04, at 6: Oct 03, at Oct 02, at 1: Oct 01, at Oct 02, at 3: Oct 11, at 7: Sep 27, at Sep 27, at 3: Sep 30, at 7:
We deplore the evils of divorce and remarriage. We regard adultery as the only scripturally justifiable grounds for divorce; and the party guilty of adultery has by his or her act forfeited membership in the church.
In the case of divorce for other cause, neither party shall be permitted to marry again during the lifetime of the other; and violation of this law shall be punished by expulsion from the church Matt. In the carrying out of these principles, guilt shall be established in accordance with judicial procedures set forth in The Discipline. Jewish views of divorce differ, with Reform Judaism considering civil divorces adequate; Conservative and Orthodox Judaism, on the other hand, require that the husband grant his wife a divorce in the form of a get.
Several countries use sharia Islamic law to administrate marriages and divorces for Muslims. Thus, Marriage in Israel is administered separately by each religious community Jews, Christians, Muslims, and Druze , and there is no provision for interfaith marriages other than marrying in another country.
For Jews, marriage and divorce are administered by Orthodox rabbis. Partners can file for divorce either in rabbinical court or Israeli civil court. According to a study published in the American Law and Economics Review, women have filed slightly more than two-thirds of divorce cases in the United States. These findings also correlate with the Office for National Statistics publication "Divorces in England and Wales  which reported that divorce petitions from women outnumber those from men by 2 to 1.
The report concluded that the percentage of shared residence orders would need to increase in order for more equitable financial divisions to become the norm. Some jurisdictions give unequal rights to men and women when filing for divorce.
For couples to Conservative or Orthodox Jewish law which by Israeli civil law includes all Jews in Israel , the husband must grant his wife a divorce through a document called a get.
If the man refuses, the woman can appeal to a court or the community to pressure the husband. A woman whose husband refuses to grant the get or who is missing is called an agunah , is still married, and therefore cannot remarry. Under Orthodox law, children of an extramarital affair involving a married Jewish woman are considered mamzerim illegitimate and cannot marry non- mamzerim.
The ancient Athenians liberally allowed divorce, but the person requesting divorce had to submit the request to a magistrate , and the magistrate could determine whether the reasons given were sufficient. Divorce was rare in early Roman culture but as their empire grew in power and authority Roman civil law embraced the maxim, " matrimonia debent esse libera " "marriages ought to be free" , and either husband or wife could renounce the marriage at will.
The Christian emperors Constantine and Theodosius restricted the grounds for divorce to grave cause, but this was relaxed by Justinian in the 6th century. After the fall of the Roman Empire, familial life was regulated more by ecclesiastical authority than civil authority. The Catholic and Orthodox Church had, among others, a differing view of divorce.
The Orthodox Church recognized that there are rare occasions when it is better that couples do separate. For the Orthodox, to say that marriage is indissoluble means that it should not be broken, the violation of such a union, perceived as holy, being an offense resulting from either adultery or the prolonged absence of one of the partners. Thus, permitting remarriage is an act of compassion of the Church towards sinful man.
Under the influence of the Catholic Church the divorce rate had been greatly reduced by the 9th or 10th century,  which considered marriage a sacrament instituted by Jesus Christ and indissoluble by mere human action.
Although divorce, as known today, was generally prohibited in Catholic lands after the 10th century, separation of husband and wife and the annulment of marriage were well-known. What is today referred to as " separate maintenance " or " legal separation " was termed "divorce a mensa et thoro" "divorce from bed-and-board".
The husband and wife physically separated and were forbidden to live or cohabit together; but their marital relationship did not fully terminate. The grounds for annulment were determined by a Catholic church authority and applied in ecclesiastical courts. Annulment was for canonical causes of impediment existing at the time of the marriage. After the Reformation , marriage came to be considered a civil contract in the newly Protestant regions of Europe, and on that basis civil authorities gradually asserted their power to decree a "divortium a vinculo matrimonii", or "divorce from all the bonds of marriage".
Since no precedents existed defining the circumstances under which marriage could be dissolved, civil courts heavily relied on the previous determinations of the ecclesiastic courts and freely adopted the requirements set down by those courts.
As the civil courts assumed the power to dissolve marriages, courts still strictly construed the circumstances under which they would grant a divorce,  and considered divorce to be contrary to public policy. Because divorce was considered to be against the public interest, civil courts refused to grant a divorce if evidence revealed any hint of complicity between the husband and wife to divorce, or if they attempted to manufacture grounds for a divorce.
Divorce was granted only because one party to the marriage had violated a sacred vow to the "innocent spouse". If both husband and wife were guilty, "neither would be allowed to escape the bonds of marriage". Eventually, the idea that a marriage could be dissolved in cases in which one of the parties violated the sacred vow gradually allowed expansion of the grounds upon which divorce could be granted from those grounds which existed at the time of the marriage to grounds which occurred after the marriage, but which exemplified violation of that vow, such as abandonment , adultery , or "extreme cruelty".
During the English Civil War , the Puritans briefly passed a law that divested marriage of all sacrament, leaving it as a secular contract that could be broken.
John Milton wrote four divorce tracts in — that argued for the legitimacy of divorce on grounds of spousal incompatibility. His ideas were ahead of their time; arguing for divorce at all, let alone a version of no-fault divorce , was extremely controversial and religious figures sought to ban his tracts. The move towards secularisation and liberalisation was reinforced by the individualistic and secular ideals of the Enlightenment.
The Enlightened absolutist , King Frederick II "the Great" of Prussia decreed a new divorce law in , in which marriage was declared to be a purely private concern, allowing divorce to be granted on the basis of mutual consent. This new attitude heavily influenced the law in neighbouring Austria under Emperor Joseph II , where it was applied to all non-Catholic Imperial subjects.
The trend in Europe throughout the 19th century, was one of increased liberalisation; by the midth century divorce was generally granted by civil courts in the case of adultery. In Britain before wives were regarded as under the economic and legal protection of their husbands, and divorce was almost impossible. It was very difficult to secure divorce on the grounds of adultery, desertion, or cruelty. The first key legislative victory came with the Matrimonial Causes Act , which passed over the strenuous opposition of the highly traditional Church of England.
The new law made divorce a civil affair of the courts, rather than a Church matter, with a new civil court in London handling all cases. A woman who obtained a judicial separation took the status of a feme sole, with full control of her own civil rights.
Additional amendments came in , which allowed for separations handled by local justices of the peace. The Church of England blocked further reforms until the final breakthrough came with the Matrimonial Causes Act In Spain , the Constitution of the Second Spanish Republic for the first time recognised a right to divorce.
The first law to regulated divorce was the Divorce Act of , that passed the Republican Parliament despite the opposition of the Catholic Church and a coalition of the Agrarian Minority and Minority Basque-Navarre Catholic parties. The dictatorship of General Franco abolished the law.
After the restoration of democracy, a new divorce law was passed in , again over the opposition of the Catholic Church and part of the Christian Democrat party, then a part of the ruling Union of Democratic Center. In Italy , the first divorce law was introduced on 1 December , despite the opposition of the Christian Democrats ,  and entered into force on 18 December In the following years, the Christian Democrats, supported also by parties opposed to the law, promoted a recall referendum.
In , in a referendum the majority of the population voted against a repeal of the divorce law. A feature of the divorce law was the long period of marital separation of five years required. This period was reduced to three in and to a year in , in the case of judicial separation, and six months in the case of separation by mutual agreement.
Ireland and Malta approved divorce at referenda in and respectively. Divorce rates increased markedly during the 20th century in developed countries, as social attitudes towards family and sex changed dramatically. In the Edo Period — husbands could divorce their wives by writing letters of divorce. Frequently, their relatives or marriage arrangers kept these letters and tried to restore the marriages.
Wives could not divorce their husbands. Some wives were able to gain sanctuary in certain Shinto "divorce temples". After a wife had spent three years in a temple, her husband was required to divorce her. There are four types of divorce in Japan: On an all-India level, the Special Marriage Act was passed in , is an inter-religious marriage law permitting Indian nationals to marry and divorce irrespective of their religion or faith.
The Hindu Marriage Act , in which legally permitted divorce to Hindus and other communities who chose to marry under these acts. The Indian Divorce Act  is the law relating to the divorce of person professing the Christian religion.
Divorce can be sought by a husband or wife on grounds including adultery, cruelty, desertion for two years, religious conversion, mental abnormality, venereal disease, and leprosy. Mutual consent divorce can not be appealed, and the law mandates a minimum period of six months from the time divorce is applied for for divorce to be granted. While a Muslim husband can unilaterally bring an end to the marriage by pronouncing talaq,  Muslim women must go to court, claiming any of the grounds provided under the Dissolution of Muslim Marriage Act.
In the first major family law reform in the last decade, the Supreme Court of India banned the Islamic practice of "Triple Talaq" divorce by uttering of the "Talaq" word thrice by the husband. The landmark Supreme Court of India judgment was welcomed by women activists across India. Official figures of divorce rates are not available, but it has been estimated that 1 in or another figure of 11 in 1, marriages in India end up in divorce. Various communities are governed by specific marital legislation, distinct to Hindu Marriage Act, and consequently have their own divorce laws:.
An amendment to the marriage laws to allow divorce based on "irretrievable breakdown of marriage" as alleged by one of the spouses is under consideration in India. Divorce in Islam can take a variety of forms, some initiated by the husband and some initiated by the wife. The theory and practice of divorce in the Islamic world have varied according to time and place. Divorce as a means of terminating marriage is illegal for all Filipinos except Filipino Muslims. There is only civil annulment after a lengthy legal separation.
The process is costly and long, and there are many legally married couples in extramarital relations, even without a divorce law. There are two sharia courts in the Philippine judicial system that hear these cases. Senator Pia Cayetano has filed a separate divorce bill in the Senate. During that time, the Philippines, along with Malta and the Vatican, are the three most conservative countries on the issue of divorce. The bill did not pass any level of legislation because of this.
In a latest attempt, the divorce bill was refiled again in On February 22, , the House of Representatives committee on population and family relations approved a bill seeking to legalize divorce, the first time in Philippine history for such a measure to pass the committee level of legislation. The majority of the members of the House of Representatives lower house of Congress , both majority and minority blocs, are in favor of divorce, however, divorce continues to be a divisive issue in the Senate upper house of Congress , as stark opposition is present among male senators.
Divorce rates increase during times of hardship, war, and major events. Divorce rates increased after World War II because people were quick to marry each other before they went to war. When soldiers returned, they found out that they didn't have much in common with their spouses, so they divorced.
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Loading comments… Trouble loading? I was like, 'Oh, shit. Megan, 31, met her husband when she was They separated this past summer and signed divorce papers in November I was always an overachiever, and whether we like it or not, marriage is about being a successful professional. I was always anxious to do what I was supposed to do, and marriage was supposed to be it. I was in a great relationship with a really good guy, and all the pieces were in place, so I can do everything myself, so I'm not going to look to them to fulfill a gender role; they can fulfill an emotional role, and be a friend.
Cassie, 35, and living in Washington D. I think a good marriage is someone who will respect you for who you are. You grow together, or if you make changes on your own, they're supportive and that's OK. I don't look at my marriage to give me anything, I just am in it because I enjoy it.
Zahava, 27, and remarried to her second husband, first got married at She discovered shortly afterward that her husband was suffering from mental illness, a secret she kept from family and friends for a year. After 12 "terrible and unbearable" months, she finally ended the marriage. Her husband was ultimately diagnosed with bipolar disorder. You still have to do it. You still have to live your life.
Divorce is more common among children of divorced parents. But a new study in Psychological Science suggests this may have more to do with nature than nurture: The researchers examined data from. Getting Divorced Are you getting divorced? The sponsor must update the Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System (DEERS) with a certified copy of the divorce decree as soon as possible. Eligibility for TRICARE: Won't change for the sponsor. Won't . Josh Weed, who made headlines in for coming out as a gay Mormon man in a straight marriage, announced Thursday that he and his wife, Lolly, are getting divorced.