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Mid-to-late stage dementia often presents challenging behavior problems. Although it can be hard to understand why people with dementia act the way they do, the explanation is attributable to their disease and the changes it causes in the brain.
Aggression is usually triggered by something—often physical discomfort, environmental factors such as being in an unfamiliar situation, or even poor communication. She could be perfectly fine one moment, and the next she was yelling and getting physical. Often, it remained a mystery as to what prompted the outburst. For her caregivers, it was often getting dressed or bathing that provoked aggression.
The key to responding to aggression caused by dementia is to try to identify the cause—what is the person feeling to make them behave aggressively? If she was upset, oftentimes trying to talk to her and calm her down only served to agitate her more. Likewise, touching her—even to try and hold her hand or gently rub her arm or leg—might result in her taking a swing. The best course of action in that case was to walk away and let her have the space she needed.
There are a few possible ways to respond to questions that indicate your loved one is confused about where he or she is. Lengthy explanations or reasons are not the way to go. This was another familiar situation for Ann and her mother. Too many times, I tried to reason with her and explain that she was home; this was her new home. Inevitably things would get progressively worse. These can contribute to delusions, or untrue beliefs.
Some of these problems are obvious, such as when someone is hoarding household items, or accuses a family member of stealing something. Some are more subtle, however, and the person may not realize that they are having trouble with things that they never used to think twice about. At the time, she was living independently and was very adamant about remaining in her house. Any discussion to the contrary, or really any comment that eluded to the fact that she may be slipping, was met with either rage or tears.
It was when she asked me to help with her taxes that I noticed the checking account was a mess. Also, you can often minimize frustration and embarrassment by offering help in small ways with staying organized. As we talked through it, she volunteered that she was having more and more difficulty keeping things straight, knew she had made some errors, and asked if I would mind helping with the checkbook going forward.
I remember her being so relieved after we talked about it. Are you a caregiver or family member of someone with dementia? Do any of these situations sound familiar to you? We want to hear your stories — share them with us in the comments below. They raised me and I was a difficult kid to raise…the youngest of 4. I understand everyone has had different situations but I think I can manage maybe 18 years of care to the people that gave it to me. You can check yourself into a home if you like but those people will be strangers that may or may not have your best interests in mind.
When our own self righteousness is fueled by self justified anger, it is almost always a destructive force. Judgements can be totally inaccurate. Kindness always trumps judgment. You get to go home and turn off at night. Even right now at 3: I replaced the aspirin with lactose pills after I found she was taking like 30 a day.
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My sibling was like you. They were going to take care of mom no matter what, even if it killed them. They developed cancer and were in so much physical pain that they could barely walk. Yet, they would not give up caring for mom. Her living conditions, physical and mental well being all deteriorated to the point that law enforcement became involved. No one does this alone. We all need help. We all need to recognize clearly and logically when it becomes too much for one person.
Its about doing what is right for the one you love, even if that means stepping aside. Please keep that in mind. This is what happens when its all a costs. For me, looking at myself in the mirror, I need other people to be aware of how damaging the all or nothing approach to caregiving is — Hi Irene, My mother has severe dementia. And here is the other side — Hi Irene, My mother has severe dementia. Spare your family from the emotional toll this sort of all or nothing thinking creates.
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There are some lines I just will not cross. I get so mad at her, for asking questions over and over…. About a month ago I got back to my ex after 2 and half years separated. Everything was ok and she was the most adorable woman in the world. Not even a message. I wrote to her a few times trying to understand what happened, she read but just ignored me. You are one of the lucky ones. I will trade you my mom for yours and maybe your sick stomach would have a change of heart! I am in the same predicament.
My Mom is in the hospital and will be going to a long term care facility. In a matter of four months, Mom went from independent living in a giant house on her own, to being bed bound and diapered. I visit everyday and when my Mom gets nasty with me, I take my book and read in the waiting room for minutes. When I go back in to her room it is almost like I have hit a reset button, and she is much calmer and kinder.
If she gets agitated again, I pack up my things, kiss her good bye and tell her that I love her and return the next day. Ground Hog Day is what I call it. Nobody should judge the actions of others, if the actions are made with the best of intentions. I dare anyone to care for an 85 year old parent with the motor skills and comprehension of a tantruming toddler. It is not easy to walk away, but if you do not, it is not healthy for anybody. Blessings to all who are touched by this insidious disease.
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These regional productions are noted below. Critics were general dismissive of the series. When it started, it received unfavourable comparison with BBC's popular Tonight programme. An interesting comparison was made with the offering on Fri Feb 9th with the rival Tonight: A straightforward OB presentation was interspersed with clips showing the activities of various breeds of dogs, and a few interviews Since many of the programmes were devised on a topical basis, TV Times often simply indicated that regular presenter Huw Thomas introduced "the fun, the excitement, the fascination of life around us.
The very first programme in its regular 6. Tues Nov 7th Reporter: Wed Nov 8th Reporter: Thurs Nov 9th Reporter also Huw Thomas. Fri Nov 10th Reporter: Mon Nov 13th Reporter: Tues Nov 14th Reporter: Wed Nov 15th Reporter: Thurs Nov 16th Director: Fri Nov 17th Director: Fri Feb 9th Reporter: Christopher Hodson Mon Feb 26th Reporter: Tues Feb 27th Reporter: Wed Feb 28th Director: Thur Mar 1st Director: Fri Mar 2nd Director: Mon Mar 12th Director: Don Gale Wed Mar 14th Reporter: Thur Mar 15th Reporter: Fri Mar 16th Reporter: Tues Mar 27th Reporter: Wed Mar 28th Reporter: Thur Mar 29th Reporter: Mon Apr 9th Introduced by Michael Ingrams.
Nan Winton and NevilleBarker. Tues Apr 10th Introduced by Michael Ingrams. Wed Apr 11th Introduced by Michael Ingrams.
Thur Apr 12th Introduced by Michael Ingrams. Fri Apr 13th Introduced by Michael Ingrams. Mon Apr 30th Introduced by Michael Ingrams. Tues May 1st Introduced by Michael Ingrams. Wed May 2nd Introduced by Michael Ingrams. Thurs May 3rd Introduced by Michael Ingrams. Fri May 4th Introduced by Michael Ingrams. Huw Thomas, who had been ill in hospital, now returned to the series: Wed May 9th Director: Thur May 10th Reporter: Fri May 11th Introduced and directed by Michael Ingrams. Wed May 16th Reporter: Thur May 17th Reporter: Fri May 18th Reporter: There was a three week break in the summer The programme returned on August 6th.
Mon Aug 20th Director: Tues Aug 21st Reporter: Wed Aug 22nd Reporter: Thur Aug 23rd Reporter: Wed Sept 5th A London night club during the day. Mon Dec 17th Reporter: A demonstration of "a new dance craze" Thur Dec 20th Director: Mon Jan 21st Reporters: Michael Nelson and Steve Race.
Tues Jan 22nd Director: Thur Jan 24th Reporter: Mon Feb 4th Introduced by Dick Joice. Anglia Tues Feb 5th Reporter: Wed Feb 6th Director: Thur Feb 7th Reporter: Mon Feb 25th Introduced by Dick Joice. Michael Ingrams returns as Producer. Anglia Tues Feb 26th Director: Wed Feb 27th Reporter: Thur Feb 28th Reporter: Mon Mar 4th Introduced by Dick Joice. Anglia Tues Mar 5th Reporter: Wed Mar 6th Reporter: Thur Mar 7th Reporter: Wed Mar 20th marked Southern's first contribution, hosted by John McGavin Wed Mar 27th interview with a Hampshire millionaire who wants to give away two and a half million pounds Southern.
Directed by Anthony Searle. The plight of Essex oyster fishers. Wellings interviewed people in Colchester to learn how the lack of trade had affected them.
Shots of the bumper oyster harvest festival contrasted with the scene of dead rotting oysters. Anglia Tues Apr 30th Director: Wed May 1st introduced by Terence Carroll. Anglia Tues May 14th Reporter: Mon June 17th Introduced by Dick Joice. Anglia Tues June 18th Reporter: Wed June 19th introduced by Terence Carroll.
With 4 prefects in the common room of Bedales School Petersfield. Southern Thur June 20th Reporter: Mon July 22nd Reporter Anthony Brown. Tues July 23rd Reporter Michael Ingrams.
Southern Thur July 25th Reporter: Mon Aug 5th introduced by Bob Wellings Director: Anglia Tues Aug 6th Director: Report from Cowes Wed Aug 7th Commentators: Barry Westwood and Bill Richardson.
Leading yachtsmen join Outside Broadcast cemeras on board Power Vessel 1. Southern Thur Aug 8th Reporter: Mon Aug 19th Director: Anglia Tues Aug 20th Director: A film about Fred Lexter of Abbotsbury. Southern Thur Aug 22nd Reporter: Mon Aug 26th Reporter: Anglia Tues Aug 27th Director: Wed Aug 28th The Gymkhana Director: Southern Thur Aug 29th Reporter: Wed Sept 4th Southampton University Students making jazz at night.
Southern Mon Sept 9th Director: Anglia Tues Sept 10th Director: With Peter Twiss, also aboard: Southern Thur Sept 12th Reporter: From now on, shown Mondays to Wednesdays, same time 6. Mon Sept 16th Introduced by Dick Joice. Anglia Tues Sept 17th Director: A film examining the change in hop picking methods.
Anglia Tues Sept 24th Director: Introduced by Peter Williams. Anglia Tues Oct 15th Director: Portrait of the Artist- Wed Oct 16th Director: Terence Carroll talks to Dusty Springfield. A visit to a sheepskin factory. Anglia Tues Dec 3rd Intervewer: Nuclear Power- Wed Dec 4th.
A visit to Dungeness Nuclear Power Station. On board the Harwich to Hook of Holland steamer. Anglia Tues Dec 17th Intervewer: Commuters- Wed Dec 18th. On board a crowded commuter train.
Visit to areas affected by the floods, to see what has been done to ensure the tragedy is not repeated. Anglia Tues Jan 28th Intervewer: A Dog Match Wed Feb 12th. Southampton dog owners challenge owners in Hammersmith. A visit to a police training establishment for dogs in Chelmsford.
Anglia Tues Mar 3rd Reporter: The Sentence Begins Wed Mar 4th. Introduced by Terence Carroll. Men recently released from jail. Directed by Ron Downing. A training session for skaters in Yarmouth.
Anglia Tues Apr 14th Reporter: A film fantasy about a teenage boy and girl. Directed by Harry Aldous. Visit to a bacon factory. A Day at the Seaside Wed Apr 22nd. Southern The series ended in June before it could quite clock up editions. Scottish Television ran their own Here and Now regional programme, which had no connection with this Missing Menu.
Set in Mississippi, 'there simply isn't any such thing as being protected by the law down here. Why, when those three boys were murdered here last summer, the governor of the state said it served them right' 2 Three to a Cell Aug 25th Director: Why would they cross us? Why don't I tell them? Wthatever the informer's told them, they don't expect us to break out tonight.
And that's what we're going to do Unwin Time That master inventor of Gobbledygook, Stanley Unwin made numerous tv appearances, but I think this was the only series of his very own. Professor Unwin takes an Unwinese look at hobbies and sports. It was a five minute monologue made for ATV in , but only partially networked.
The Producer was Donald Shingler. Some of the lectures were: Wrestling- Sunday April 24th This ran for five series from until Starting and continuing on BBC radio, the first tv series was in on the BBC pictured left , with a second beginning on May 31st For the final three series, production was in the hands of Associated Rediffusion right picture.
However Ronnie Hanbury took over from Bob Ross about 4. The director was John Phillips except where noted. Details of the ITV programmes: Ben suspects their old friend Jack has amorous inclinations towards Bebe.
When Richard decides that teenage girl friends are really far too juvenile for him, he falls overboard for a glamorous and sophisticated woman of the world. The family are called to a solicitor's office to hear something t their advantage. All children between 9 and 90 believe in Santa Claus, and Bebe sets out to prove it to the family. Bebe sets off to the January sales. Ben decides to put his foot down once and for all. Bebe decides to run the family in an entirely new way.
Sept 19th , 6. A case of mistaken identity results in the arrival of an unexpected and unusual female figure. Bebe decides to become an artist with devastating effects on the family and the world of art.
Bebe suspects Ben of mixing pleasure with business at the office. Ben thinks it is time Richard learned to box, and takes him along to a boxing academy. But when the big fight comes, the results are not quite what the family expected.
Bebe decides that men have things too much their own way. So she forms a woman's party to take over the government, with surprising results. The family are visited by Bebe's cowboy nephew from America. He decides to help Ben celebrate his birthday. Bebe suspects Ben of having homicidal tendencies and enlists Florrie to help her do battle with the 'monster.
Richard gets into troubles with his girl friends and accepts a little fatherly help and advice from Ben, with unexpected results. Barbara invites three juvenile delinquents to lunch. Director for this episode: Bebe uses a domestic agency to get a handyman, but ends in a marriage bureau.
Ben is volunteered for a hospital staff concert, but the hospital mistake him for a volunteer for a new research experiment. Bebe goes to the sales, getting mixed up with a gang of international spies.
The family think Richard has fallen for a striptease dancer. It's Bebe's birthday and she is hoping for a lovely surprise, but she doesn't get quite the one she expects. Ben's boss calls unexpectedly during his absence, and to save the situation, Richard disguises himself as his father. The family put on a play about the life of Nelson, with Ben as producer. Ben decides, in defiance of the family, to give an open air dinner. The family go in for a spot of haunting, but things do not turn out quite as they planned.
Under Fire "The North fires a salvo at London. The programme began in the Autumn schedules, the first I have noted: Thursday October 25th , Robin Day Thursday Dec 27th , Same directors After a break from early in , the series returned on April 6th , director: Friday May 17th , Friday Dec 27th , Last of series on May 5th It returned on May 26th , then in the summer for a brief spell on Mondays Michael Scott and Wilfred Fielding.
Photo shows Bill Grundy egging on the Manchester audience. It was back periodically in autumn Mondays Claude Whatham and Wilfred Fielding, this last series finishing in Spring Young Northerners ask questions to well known personalities.
Gordon Sandison of Equity supported the motion, "new recruits into the profession should be told of all the difficulties. First programme was on Wed Feb 20th Leonard Sachs was a later chairman, on May 1st The last of this series was on Thursday June 20th After a brief break the series returned next month on Thursdays 6.
In September it moved to Thursday then Tuesdays at 6pm. Michael Scott continued as the director. Elaine Grand became the regular chairman from October From Wed Feb 19th it was shown 6. Some special programmes that were advertised: Thurs Sept 13th with Lord Beveridge. Should sport be compulsory in schools? Tues Jan 28th with Billy Butlin. Tues Feb 11th "This week the tables are turned, and the older generation have the chance to question four undergraduates.
March 12th with Sir Ronald Howe: How to Fight Crime. April 23rd with Sir Compton Mackenzie. The title changed to We Want An Answer. However the emphasis was still on "young people with inquiring minds meet experts. Photo shows a rehearsal in which Pat Johns stood in for the questioner. May 14th with Rabbi Kopul Rosen. May 21st with Sir Hugh Casson. May 28th with Carl Foreman.
June 25th with Dame Edith Sitwell. In the summer schedules the series moved to Fridays Autumn saw it move to Thursdays 6. Dec 4th with Peter Hall. Dec 18th with Stephen Potter. Director in March was Graham Evans. Wilfred Fielding and Claude Whatham in April. In the summer Malcolm Muggeridge took over the chair until the series ended that August.
Some others who appeared, dates not known: Sir Norman Birkett and Chris Brasher. In a very similar style of programme was Who Goes Next? Said Cyril Coke, producer, "why these two ever got divorced is something of a mystery. Jango is always on the point of asking her to remarry him, but somehow never gets round to it. He almost bumbles by accident into crimes, but is exceptionally adept at solving them. Crimes he solves include: Murder Stamp was a play in the Television Playhouse series, that introduced these characters, and it was deemed worth building this series round them.
In the original play, Jango was a Professor of Criminology at Nairobi University, interested in unsolved crimes- yes, this was the original New Tricks!
Everything points to Stanley Fletcher, but there is no real proof. After six years, it seems highly unlikely the truth will ever be discovered. Geoffrey Bellman and John Whitney. Peter Ling and Sheilah Ward. Rest of cast, many from Chez Les Dupre series: Mess Mates Series 1 began on June 28th and ran for 13 episodes. After nearly a year's break, it returned for a second series on September 12th The last story was on March 13th Ronald Hines joined the second series as the new first mate 'Dapper' Drake.
The blarney introducing the programme stated: Led by the mate, that arch-schemer Tug Nelson, they spend as much time trying to outwit their skipper as they do holding the ship together.
Biskett has to cope with the problem of the disappearing ship's bell. Talbot Rothwell and Lew Schwarz. Biskett has a new command, almost a new crew, and certainly a new mate. His troubles are over, or are they? To cash in on the gambling craze, Dapper Drake persuades the crew that there is a big future in fruit machines.
Unhappily the payoff is not exactly what they expected. Dapper Drake finds the tables are turned when he tries to smuggle an old pal aboard for a free trip to Ireland. Dapper Drake, offered the job of his dreams, finds it very difficult to keep the appointment.
With Vincent Harding as Doctor. Croaker has tummy ache and demands the full treatment. Captain Biskett decides to operate- with disastrous results. When Twinkle tries to find himself a wife, he nearly succeeds in marrying off the whole crew. The TV Times front cover showed a photo of the series this week.
Croaker Jones is petrified, and this feeling is catching. No Michael Balfour or Frank Atkinson The crew, faced with a forced indefinite leave and unable for private reasons to go home, volunteer to spend their time in an experimental isolation unit. With Margaret Boyd as Mrs Biskett.
A typical British seaman from the Jersey Lily is chosen to appear on television, and the rest of the crew try to make him into a big star 15 The Christmas Spirit Dec 19th No Michael Balfour or Frank Atkinson.
Captain Biskett and the boys decide to take Christmas to the Croaker family, but when they arrive, laden with gifts and goodwill, everything is not plain sailing. The crew of the Jersey Lily finds themselves carrying a strange cargo. Jan 2nd , 7. An abandoned baby turns all members of the crew into soft-hearted nursemaids. David Cumming and Derek Collyer. No Michael Balfour or Frank Atkinson who had left the series.
The boys are broke again. How can the boys get it? The crew go on a monster hunt, and what a monstrosity it turns out to be. Croaker, Dapper Dan and the skipper suddenly rtake a topst turvy view of the world and discover things aren't what they seem.
All the nice girls lve a sailor- unless it's Croaker! When the captain has a birthday, things are liable to go with a bang! Does Captain Biskett walk in his sleep? Or is it two other people? In an attempt to stop smoking, Croaker never gives up. Captain Biskett writes a letter and ends up in a sorry state.
On Stage A-R, A late evening show, not networked. But the show was introduced by Robert MacDermot. Jonathan Alwyn also worked on the series.
This first programme was hosted by Ludovic Kennedy. The programme on July 31st included scenes from the play Oh! Details of some later programmes: Tuesday February 4th , 11pm: May 20th edition included Gerard Heinz. Local repertory companies featured included those at Ipswich, Hornchurch, and Oxford. The programme's appeal was widened in June when it was renamed Late London. With music by the Steve Race Four. June 24th introduced by Jacqueline Mackenzie. On July 1st it was renamed Late Extra: Introduced by Jacqueline Mackenzie and Michael Westmore.
Other producers of the series included Alan Morris, directors included Ian Fordyce. No presenter is often mentioned though Kenneth MacLeod and Michael Ingrams seem to have been the main interviewers.
Others who definitely appeared in this series included: In mid January the Malcolm Lockyer Sextet took over. From the start of the series was shown on Thursday nights at 11pm. Edmund Purdom became the presenter from about Feb 26th Derek Waring was the presenter starting May Joan Phillips was the director May 21st only.
May 4th Fanny Craddock introduced, with music by Steve Race. Tig Roe Missing Menu. In a trade ad at the end of the run in Sept , Davis thanked his guests, which were, in alphabetical order: Jerry Allen provided the backing music. This was an opportunity for those in show business, or singers of professional standard to perform their act for four minutes or anything up to ten minutes.
Around 50 people were auditioned every fortnight in London or Birmingham by Peters and his producer Fred Wilby. Unfortunately the acts were not announced in TV Times, so I can only give scant details from other sources of a few who appeared do email if you can add details: Jack Escott March 23rd Mimi Pearse a leading lady of the Folie de Londres July 7th Barry Johns from Southampton probable date July 28th Lorna Dean Sept 8th Peter Regan Missing Menu.
In this era of wall-to-wall tv, it's hard to appreciate the value of these periodic afternoon shows, which were shown as a supplement to the daily schedule. Broadcasting hours were restricted by law, only religious programmes, schools broadcasts and, strangely, Welsh language programmes were exempt from this post war rationing: But outside broadcasts were subject to separate government legislation- hours per year were allowed, in the s this was increased to hours pa.
This meant that many weekday afternoons offered viewers only a test card to watch, it was all very hit and miss when other outside broadcasts were scheduled, and sometimes some ITV regions offered only blank screens, while other stations were bathing in some local extravaganza. Not included here are the many Horse Racing outside broadcasts, the first of which was on Nov 11th from Lingfield, I've also excluded Bank Holidays, and Cricket which also featured periodically in the summer schedules.
One early series that used OB equipment was Kingsway Corner , which picked on passers-by as they passed the A-R studios. Apart from the opening evening's ceremony, the earliest example I have noted was 5th National Fabric Fair Tues Oct 4th , Afternoon Out Wednesday Jan 11th , 4.
Afternoon Out Wednesday Feb 22nd , Afternoon Out Wednesday Apr 11th , 4. After a break in the spring, perhaps it was deemed that viewers would be out of doors, the programmes returned from June to September under the umbrella Afternoon Out: Skyscraper on the South Bank Tues June 5th The FA Cup victory parade by the Manchester City team was one of the first transmissions by this unit. Elaine Grand at the Royal Botanical Gardens.
Arranged by Remy Hefter and Sam Cotton. The Travelling Eye Fri June 8h , The Travelling Eye Fri June 8h , 4. No 1 London Mon June 18th , The Way to the South Mon June 18th , 4. Soccer Coaching Tues June 19th , Inside out Tues June 19th 3. Blackpool Dog Show Wed June 20th Tea at the Embassy Thur June 21st , 3. Handle with Care Fri June 22nd , Commentators included Fred Perry and Maureen Connolly.
Tuesday July 31st Arranged by Howard S Cotton. Diplomatic liaison by Remy Hefter. Mary Hill and Kenneth Macleod. Farnborough Air Show Monday Sept 3rd , The Mighty Arsenal Thurs Sept 6th 4. Bernard Joy and John Wynn Jones. Chessington Zoo Fri Sept 7th , 3. Tuesday September 11th , 3. Waterfront Tuesday September 11th , 3. Thurs Sept 27th 4. Ben Lyon discusses the models with Mary Hill. The murderer of a young man and a gamekeeper on Marsden Moor was never caught.
Outside Broadcasts, apart from Horse Racing, and weekend broadcasts, were largely absent from the schedules until: Wimbledon from Mon June 24th , 1. Alan Morris and Stephen Wade. This was a return visit from Lord Baden-Powell and Ken Johnstone. Wed Aug 7th 4. Thur Aug 8th, Fri Aug 9th, 4. A final visit was on Sat Aug 10th, Scene described by Kenenth MacLeod.
International Dancing Championships Thursday Oct 31st , Introduced by Kenneth Macleod. Bill Perry A TV Times letter claimed, "I have just been watching the afternoon session of the Dancing Champinships and I noticed during the juvenile semi-final that the iridiscent sequins on the girls' dresses showed quite distinctly in colour. Winter at the Wheel Friday Nov 1st , 3. Introduced by Kent Walton. University of London Wednesday December 4th , 3. Peter Lloyd and Emlyn Jones.
Wimbledon from Mon June 23rd , 1. Noele Gordon and Bill Allenby. State Opening of Parliament Tues Oct 28th , Robin Day produced by BBC. Having a Wonderful Time Boxing Day , 4. Introduced by Gordon Bradley. Tom Glazer and David Calcutt. ITV's first election coverage had begun the previous evening, scheduled to end at 2. Then bright and early at 6.
Local results were transmitted from London, director: The programme was due to end when the results were known. Commonwealth Journey Monday Dec 8th , 3.
Though there had been few weekday afternoon outside broadcasts, apart from horse racing, during , the title 'Afternoon Out' had been applied to the range of Saturday afternoon events until just before Christmas, when it was altered to 'Let's Go. Introduced by Rev Michael Hollings. There was a final visit on the Saturday afternoon. Farm in the North Wed May 18th , 3. Greyhound Racing Thurs July 21st , 3.
Bill Allenby ATV - a second visit, previously in Muriel Young and John Cotterill. Polo Thur Aug 25th , 3. Robin Addie and Emlyn Jones.
Farnborough Air Display Tues Sept 6th , 2. Jeffrey Quill and Colin Hodgkinson. Show Jumping Wed Sept 7th , 4.
Bill Perry Southern TV. Greyhound Racing Thurs Oct 13th , 3. Introduced by Nancy Wise. Schoolboy Boxing Tues Dec 13th , 3. J Murray Ashford A-R. Christmas Rush Fri Dec 16th , 4. Introduced by Celia Irving. Greyhound Racing Mon Feb 6th , 3. The Design Centre Tues Feb 7th , 3. Basketball Wed Feb 8th , 4. London Rockets v Greenham Common Pirates. Canal Crusing Tues Mar 21st , 4. Kent Walton and Maureen Davies. Greyhound Racing Thurs Mar 23rd , 3.
Raymond Brooks-Ward and Peter Lloyd. The Queen in the North Wednesday May 24th , The Royal Wedding Thursday June 8th , 1. Commentators were the cream that ITV could produce: From which it can be deduced that the ITV companies cooperated on this. The Enthronement Tuesday June 27th , 1. Berkeley Smith Southern TV. Tues Oct 17th , 4. Toys in the Design Centre Wed Oct 18th , 4. With John West and Carola Mason. John P Hamilton A-R. Tenpin Bowling Thur Oct 19th , 4.
District semi finals and finals, organised by The People. Rugby Football Wed Nov 1st , 3. Royal Horse Guards Thur Nov 2nd , 3. Schoolboys Boxing Fri Nov 3rd , 4. Rugby Wed Nov 8th , 3. Second half of Surrey v Eastern Counties. Royal Journey Thur Nov 9th , 4. John Scholes, with Celia Irving. Jewellery Fri Nov 10th , 4. Association Football Wed Apr 11th , Peter Lloyd and Joe Jagger. Greyhound Racing Thur Apr 12th , 3. London trials for the London v Dublin tournament.
Wimbledon June - the usual coverage Tennis Wednesday July 25th , 3. Emlyn Jones and Mary Halford. The Building Centre Fri Aug 3rd , 3. Bowls Monday Aug 20th , 3. Also Tuesday to Thursday that week commencing 9.
The first ever broadcast of this congress. Bill Grundy and Harold Perkin. Travelling Eye at the party conferences for the first time. Bill Grundy and Ian Trethowan. It continued until the closing speech on Saturday Sept 22nd, There was similar coverage of the Labour and Conservative Conferences, the latter also having to compete with Racing from York.
Similar schedules also in of the party conferences. Introduced by Brian Connell. Peter Lloyd and Raymong Brooks-Ward. International Football Wednesday May 8th , 3. FA Centenary match, second half coverage. Wimbledon fortnight commencing Monday June 24th , 1. Show Jumping Thursday July 11th , 3.
Tennis Monday July 22nd , 2. Gardening Made Easy Wed Aug 7th , Goods to appeal to the overseas visitor, introduced by Dick Norton. Intorduced by Brian Connell, with David Butler. Baseball Monday Aug 19th , 3. George Beech and Emlyn Jones. A-R Bowls Fri Aug 23rd 3. Emlyn Jones and Edward Sussam. Softball Mon Aug 26th , 3. A-R Polo Tues Aug 27th , 3.
A-R Hockey Mon Sept 9th , 3. Liberal Party Assembly Wed Sept 11th , from 9. Alastair Burnet and George Ffitch. Berekley Smith Southern- only partially networked. International Soccer Wednesday October 23rd , 4.
Longer highlights were shown at 9. Rodney Crouch and Raymond Brooks-Ward. Commentators; Peter Lloyd and Bill Cox. Ted Lowe and Harold Phillips. Afternoon Sport Thur Apr 9th , Introduced by Gerry Loftus.
Show Jumping Thurs 30th Apr, Wimbledon fortnight commencing Monday June 22nd , 1. The Royal Show Tues July 7th , 2. Show Jumping Thursday July 9th , 3.
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Love your elders, xo. We are supost to care for our parents.???? I will do it over n over again. I love all my clients n only want them happy. My wife is 73yrs , as fit as a fiddle, does cycling, dancing etc. I have found that in the past 2 years, she has changed ,good for about a week ,then all of a sudden changes and wants to argue all the time over the simplest of subjects.
She wont talk to me for days. All I want is our marriage back, 52yrs of it. My Mom is 88 yrs of age, always been a fiesty and dominant, independent type woman. So this is a condition that I shall continue to study to understand and thereby cope with, as I know our Heavenly Father, would want me to seek more ways, so I can honor my aged Mother. I am dealing wiht a neighbor 86 biker guy good friend with advanced glaucoma and probable dementia. Nobody can do anything for him unless he makes a phone call for an evaluation.
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Please visit here for more information: I thought this was meant to be a safe space. This is one of the single most worst thing to go through with someone close to you. Terminal illness with a mental illness thrown in to-boot. What is always so frustrating and hurtful is the balance we try to achieve by still trying to show respect for our elderly relatives, and wanting to tell at them.
Talk about it with everyone you can, vent and swear as much as possible outside of the situation. But it sounds like you are a smart cookie and will get through this. I know you love her even if you hate her right now.
I agree, Susan…the agitation is not healthy for the patient. If my visit to an aging parent or in-law makes that person upset, then the kindest thing I can do is not visit. I love my mom, and I have been her caregiver, gave up my life to live with her and take care of her, for the last 10 years. All mothers are wonderful people. Ask Diane Downs or Susan Smith about that. Every parent is different, every child is.
Remember, a lot of these people have children of their OWN they need to worry about. If your mother hated you and was mean to you your whole life, why would you constantly visit her, just to be berated and attacked, to get stressed out and have it impact your own family and your health? That makes no sense. Yes, you did say she was wrong, by saying it made you sick to your stomach, and basically insinuating she is a cruel, cold, heartless monster.
You made an assumption, about someone you never met, and came off rude and callous. The anger is one thing, but what about the delusions? My husband was so smooth at hiding his infidelity so I had no proof for months, I was referred to some hacker and decided to give him a try.. Having seen these videos, I later learned that pyromania is quite common among such individuals. As hilarious as that sounds, it is also quite terrifying.
Lighting shit on fire is something they commonly do. As a result, there will be a period where she is still at home while I am not. The only real dangers are:. She will try to use the oven or otherwise start a fire. To avoid this, turn off the gas and make sure lighters or matches are not available. She will wander off. Right now my grandmother is probably going through the garbage looking for her cat that I dismembered and hid. She let him out of the house, probably on purpose or just by standing at the door holding it open.
This happens almost every day. Sometimes she calls the police. Nobody here cares about whether someone else is seeing their typing in all caps as yelling or not.
We are all here seeking information to help us care for someone with dementia, which is an extremely stressful responsibility that does not include needing to know how to type the way others think they should type… we are simply trying to educate ourselves on matters that directly affect us… what is more important to you? To focus on the subject matter a person is discussing, questions they ask, advice they offer and the feelings they express, or whether or not they have been displayed or typed in a manner that has your approval?
O Why not use all this energy on something more important? No one is required to go by any manual or rule book when they are at home on their own personal time, trying to find information on caring for someone with dementia! Caring for someone with dementia is stressful enough.
I usually try not to explain anything and just reasure her shes safe cause if i tell her theirs nobody there, she will get angry at me for not believing her. I took her gun away thankfully. I just dont know how long this will go on before it gets worse and something has to be done about it. I just want her to feel shes safe and be as comfortable and independent as long as possible, because the options are not very good when she gets worse.
Just not part of reality any more, and you have to accept that. Bringing them back is impossible and trying will just agitate them. Another thing that happens all the time is she will have text-book sleep paralysis dreams like vague notions of someone standing over you, then mysteriously going back to sleep. In such a situation with someone hypothetically standing over you while you sleep, a reasonable response would be to try to identify that person or perhaps react with alarm. Though I would personally shoot myself in the head before letting it get to that point, I can tell you with absolute certainty that I would be a complete horror to take care of, if it was me.
I would be fighting all the time. And I mean physically. It first started when I received a letter from a firm wanting to help with credit card debt. I called the person to find out what was going on.
The person said we had a lot of credit card debt and he could help. I asked how much debt was he talking about he gave me the card names and the amount l was in disbelief, the cards total was over one hundred thousand dollars. The guy said he could help settled for a lesser amount. I told the person I would have to find out how this has happened. I had 20 thousand dollars in the bank, I had told my wife we had to hold onto that, I would ask from time to time do we still have that money?
I had to fix that by negotiating a settlement, I sold some of my classic cars and barrowed money from my family to pay off the debt. I could see things happening that was out of normal behavior the house was becoming cluttered, things were being put in different places than where they had been for years. Whenever I would ask her why she did one thing or another she would get defensive and say I can never do anything right.
My wife stop wanting people to come to our house and she stopped visiting people. My wife had to have heart surgery, she would say things like I went behind her back and this is not a hospital, I want to go home I was doing ok with the medication. The heart doctor was really good but my wife thinks he made her worse. My daughter is going to end up with the same thing as her mother I try to tell her about her mom but she interrupts me and when I try to tell her to let me speak she gets louder and I cannot understand what she is saying, either she will hang up with me or I have to hang up on her.
My daughter is so disrespectful to me after all of her life I have always tried to do everything for her even after she married a guy that abuses her. Good point Debby, but I am gone anyway. I came here about a serious problem WHO the heck cares. I cannot believe folks with concerns of trivia.
My sis ter has problems. If I read an answer in caps i would be thrilled. COM who helped me with the hack and all and after then i got results of my boy friend phone and i read all his messages with out physical access to his phone and i also got to see his new girl photos all over his phone but am happy i found out the truth about my spouse and now i can take my new step thanks to this hacker.
Why would the reality that you got your mental issues from your mentally damaged relatives hurt me?? In i moved back from texas being gone 3 years but coming home to california inbetween. This past time was suppose to be for a long visit and soon to return to pick up my cats.
Unfortunatley was the 1st time i noticed my mother forgetting simple things or repating the same question. Moving foward the progression is now where accusations are being made directly at me stealing paper work. Clothing and jewlery need i say the anger that riised in me went from Fast!!
I thought with all the stress my mother chooses to carry , i say chooses by choice because she makes her life complicated so i assumed this is the readon for her forgetfulness or constant theft accussation to myself as well as a handfull of others.
I trully believed her stories about certain people stealing from her. I had my fiance tell me your mother repeats her self or ask me a question that i just gave her a few hours ago or day before… I would always anseer shes stressed… He replied sounds more like dimentia , being first hands expierince with his own father he knew the signs , i found myself arguing back with my mother for her false acvusations towards myself how dare she she should know better after all i wasnt raised to steal lie etc….
Even up to this year , where is this strong women who kept tidy that didnt allow any Bs! I was in denial …. This week i learned everything i was fighting in my mind denying my mom coukd have demenyia had came to be more clear and confirmed… I want to desperatley learn how to cope with her and not be angry anymore i m going through 1st stage of grieving because im loosing my mother my dear beautiful mother ….
You, sir, are missing the point. I thought this forum was about something else entirely. How did it degenerate into a controversy over the use of CAPS? Hi — glad to have found you. Dad basically did EVERYthing for her — much more than we ever realized — and we are now dealing with how to fill in all those holes. I am the only daughter of 3 living children and it had always fallen to me to take care of their medical needs — especially when dad was the patient.
He was pretty independent, and unless he had a procedure that required no driving he took care of most things himself.
But she was so lost and hurt and scared that taking her away from her home was going to be left as a last resort. My brother jumped in and took over the mail and bills, etc, and I was in charge of the day-to-day. She takes meds twice a day which she could handle on her own at least we thought she could but needed help with her eye drops. So I made a schedule out every week with someone coming twice a day to do drops, and who was taking her to church and to Dr.
It was a balancing act, but I made it work…for about 3 months. We have always been oil and water since I was a kid, but I was trying my best to be patient and compassionate. I was always wrong on the schedule never once , I frequently had her meds wrong never once. This morning I was there helping her get ready for her therapy and told her she had an hour and a half before she had to leave.
She argued with me up and down that she only had 45 minutes.. I had a piece of paper out writing down the minutes and even drew a picture of a clock. Thank you for letting me bend your ear.
No kidding…hello future patients! Must be nice to be perfect….. Exactly, regardless of how she is at any time in her stages of dementia I will also be by her side, good and bad, just as she was throughout my life. Abandonment is not the answer when someone needs you at their most vulnerable time of life. Gigi, my sisters and I have been caring for our mother for 5 years, unfortunately after multiple fall, we made the difficult decision to put her in a beautiful care facility.
Find the right one is very challenging and time consuming but worth it in the end. Reviewing anxiety medication levels is a constant process until the disease reaches its final stages. There are many complex issues with this disease, always maintaining a calm composure is a must, engaging in arguments only exacerbates any anxiety and agitation.
I have learnt to watch for physical symptoms just before the explosive sundowning abuse begins and that is when the medication is timed to be given. The physical changes range from tremors to overheating to the point where her face feels on fire. Icy cold cloths to the face, sucking ice to bring her body temp down and distracting with talk of her childhood memories helps also. If too aggressive for conversation I make her comfortable with the ice etc, ensure her medication is given quickly, leave all the lights on and leave to reduce the agitation.
My mum was also the same, wanting to be with us but then wanting to go back home after an hour where she was comfortable in her own surrounding reverting back to where they feel safe in their own home no matter what photos or possessions you take to make it feel like home.
If you can get her medication managed and adjusted then there will be more frequent times of calmness and reason and possible enjoyment within her day. There is no doubt this is a hideous disease that steals our loved ones but they continue to be loved no matter what aggression this disease spouts towards those closest to them. I visit daily and would never consider not seeing and checking she is ok.
There are still many good times together until she is robbed of the life she once had. Every beat my heart takes is for them. That will never change. So i guess what im trying to say is i will as you put it destroy myself everyday if i have to as long as my family is okay. Thats what were supposed to do. Which one had you stuck? My comment to Dan Sword or was it Dan Sword post that i commented on that had you like that.
In the beginning, my grandmother was fighting being diagnosed. Things have progressed since then. She rings my phone at 1am, 2am, 3am, 3: So she disappears for a little while and comes back with a cat carrier. Aaaaand she simply flipped the fuck out. So this cat that she cares so much about, is the cat that she took down the street and gave to another batshit old lady.
I wish Soylent Green was real and I could take her to their facility. Sorta reminded me of that. They have agencies that provides 24 hour home health care. I have a client now that has around the clock care. My mother has not been diagnosed outright as having Alzheimers or dementia, although they say she is in early stages..
If this is early stage, I shudder to think of what advanced Alzheimers will look like. My mother has always been a very dominant, arrogant and stubborn person. I am her only child, and as such she came to live me years ago when my father passed away. Life with her has never been easy and weve never had a good relationship. SO i let her stay with me and my family, and our lives have been hell. Now , she doesnt take her medications properly, but will not let me administer them. She accuses me of turning my family against her, when actually its her behaviour that has done that.
How do I deal with this?? Thank you Susan for your comment to Irene. My best friend and my aunt both took care of their mothers and it nearly killed them. Stress wears on a person and sometimes the body is unable to bounce back after such depletion.
My siblings and I are now in a quandry about our own mother with dementia. She lives 3 hours away and is asking us to come and get her after we just drove her home.
She tries to help when with us but gets in the way. I was really into this article and comments. To everyone dealing with this: Some dementia cases are reversible. Go back and read her comment. Would it be better if Marlene ignored the Doctor and she too succumbed to the depression associated with being a caregiver? Some people should just read and think for a long time before they post judgemental things about people they know nothing about.
The divorce was probably suggested because then your income would not factor into his eligibility for benefits and care. Indeed I do still believe my mom is the sweetest woman you could ever meet. I was able to get my girls to see her this summer and I am very glad that I did. Good memory making trip while she was still able to interact some. My father took care of my mother I visited as often as I could and eventually she ended up on in home hospice.
She was not always her sweet self — but we knew that was the disease, not mom. Recently she passed and at her memorial the resounding theme was her unconditional love for others and how she made friends where ever she went. How she made people feel loved and important. We honored the memory of who she had been all her life — not what dementia took from her. I am sorry that you are having a difficult time Dan — hang in there.
Paranoid delusions especially imaginary theft is totally typical. What they do is, they start to become paranoid and so they start to hide shit. Since their cognition is broken they just decide that somebody stole it then they fabricate a narrative where that makes sense to them. I deal with this shit every single day. I am accused of stealing 15 times a day. I am accused of killing cats and hiding their bodies in the garbage, etc.
In fact, 2 days ago I caught my grandmother out front going through the trash. She had no problem telling me that she was looking for her cat that I lit on fire and whose body I hid. Nothing like stepping out of the shower with a towel around you to find 5 cops standing outside the bathroom door, ready to take you down for imaginary elder abuse that never happened. My experiences have made be utterly hateful of demented old people.
Oh man do I hate them all. Dan, thank you so much for your post. I totally get it. I am experiencing many of the same things with my Mom. My Mom is 88 years old and over the last year, her dementia has slowly gotten worse. She was the cookie baking Mom, the invite people to share holiday meals who had no where else to go kind of Mom.
It helps to know, we are not alone. And to those who have criticized, please take a step back and realize that everyone has their own way of dealing with difficult life situations.
And yes, losing a parent to dementia is way worse than losing them to death. I had a small sense of relief when my Father passed away as every part of every day had become very difficult for him. Dan, you are a saint for having taken on what is obviously a very difficult and emotionally agonizing task.
Now, back to the subject at issue? Not everyone had parents who never turned their backs on them or even gave a damn about them. If people want their kids to love and respect them and care for them when they are old and frail, they need to raise them with love and respect and nurture them.
Lots of people out here had parents who were drug addicts, alcoholics, selfish, indulgent, racist, sexist, violent, abusive, absent, …. They used guilt and fear to manipulate their children. Lots of kids grew up completely unloved by their parents. Just the fact that you are such a bully and think you deserve to be heard but everyone else should keep their opinions to themselves, makes it pretty obvious you have some serious issues to sort out.
And for the record, no one cares what you think of them either. Who do I ask? You gonna come take over for me? No i dont get off by making people feel bad. I dont sugar coat anything. So keep your opinion of me to yourself hunny cause i really dont care what you think. Not being a smartass just being honest. Bring on the euthanasia???????? You sir are the one that needs help!
I cannot believe the shit you said! I am with you on this Irene. My mom never gave up on me and I cant give up on her no matter how hard this will get. Dementia is the saddest thing to deal with ,because you see your parents shift roles.
I am new to this kind of forum, and was absolutely shocked at all the bickering, name calling, etc.. May I respectfully request that this kind of interaction not be offered or tolerated…it is so disappointing to be turning for help and find something like this.
People with dementia can lose the filter between a thought and speaking that thought. Perhaps your mom was having a fun day with another adult you and thought back on all the time she spent caring for children. The diapers, the crying, worrying. Maybe in that moment she thought how much more carefree her life would have been without children.
It may not have been about you. Consider all the thoughts you have in a day that if said aloud would get you in trouble. When I was leaning over my mom to fasten her seatbelt, she grabbed my breast and held on to it-it was no accident. I just gentlely removed her hand. Look at those soulless shark eyes with the blurry edge of the iris.
I know those eyes well. I know all I need to know about dementia. One of those airguns that they use to humanely slaughter cows. Anyone who spends enough time with them comes to this conclusion. Fortunately, the cops are not strangers to dealing with worthless burdensome demented old people, so they knew the score pretty quick. If it were me, I would absolutely notice.
They sort of just react to stimuli in pre-programmed ways. I do not doubt that I would notice if my brain were steadily shrinking and I was losing the ability to form memories or even think properly. I know you posted this a while ago, but what I did was: I explained that it is crucial that they explain this to the doctor and that he needs to examine her for this.
She would do anything to avoid being diagnosed, including blatantly lie. Now she has been diagnosed. The doctor asked me why this was probably suspecting elder abuse. You say that now. Wait until she accuses you of killing the family dog, chopping him up into little pieces, and hiding those pieces in her food every day, ten times a day. Wait until she starts calling the police on you. I now live with my dangerous lunatic of a grandmother and she is completely insane. She also cannot remember five minutes ago, and seems to not be aware of the passage of the last 30 years.
She believes she had six cats yesterday and they all just disappeared. She believes the trees outside mysteriously doubled in size over night. Is it the same with you? My grandmother does all that shit to me. Every day when I go to cook her dinner, she starts accusing me of killing her cats.
I now despise all old people, because they are all demented lunatics waiting to pop out. I was the one that complained about the caps in the first place. Dan Sword — Please read the following link: On the internet when you are communicating with text using all-caps is considered yelling and is rude! It is as simple as that. It is the same thing as if you were invited to a polite dinner and talked with your mouth full while leaning on the table with your elbows, whether or not you intended to be rude, people would think you were rude, because you are violating the rules of etiquette.
Typing in all-caps is violating the rules of internet etiquette or netiquette. I was born in Thailand. One of the rules of Thai culture is that you NEVER point with your finger at someone, or expose the bottom of your foot to someone.
It is considered exceedingly rude and Thai people are insulted if you do those things. You had better become informed of these things when you visit Thailand, because whether or not you intend to do so you will offend and insult people by doing those things.
If not, you will not be helped. Suffer the consequences of being a blockhead. My 83 year old female client got out and wandered for the first time couple of days ago. Scared the hubby as he woke up from a nap and poof she was gone. Lucky neighbours brought her back. She wanted to go home a 3 hour drive from when she was a teenager. She is usually a very nice lady, never mean. But then im only there in the lunch time hours.
I guess in the evening, she dont see her hubby as her hubby and wants him in another bed. She does not call me by my name but has called me Gertrude from day 1. A words and pictures. Her dog Jenny which she calls Dakota—a deceased dog from long ago , A picture of her and me as she forgets who I am when I leave, A picture of herself, a Obit of her Mother as she thinks she is still alive died 20 years ago , Names of her 4 children and 6 grandchildren, Her Siblings, And some of the things she once liked to do quilting, square dancing, Private boarding school for 5 years in her teenage yrs, vacationing in Portugal many times…..
She loves this book and reads it over and over and over. I didnt see Lisa Yelling but only trying to get her point across….. Do you require the services of a hacker?.. My name is Angela. I just moved in with my Mom who is I began noticing her symptoms over 2 years ago but my father was a minister long story and would not let me take her to the doctor and really admit there was a serious issue.
Needless to say I have struggled with anger for awhile My Dad got very ill about 6 months ago and declined very rapidly. He also fought medical care and the medical diagnosis of Stage 4 Cancer because of massive fluid around his heart and lungs. He complicated his care and our lives for those 6 months by leaving the hospital 5 times against medical advice and my mother also began to decline because of the chaos.
He passed away October 1 and I have not left the house since. Tonight has been the first night of silence in the house, and the first night I have been left alone for more than an hour. Thank you for letting me be here. I plan to soak up as much information as I can.
There has been so much trauma from his death. She has cried every day all day, and every night all night. All I want is to help her live the best life for the rest of her life. I want her to enjoy every moment.
I need serious help. To spend when her house mates go to the store. How much of my aunts care should my cousin be charging her for? We are shocked the amount of money he has paid himself for things you would do for your parent out of love!! How do I know what is expected …that he should be getting paid for and what they have stolden in the name of being made whole????
I think it would be better to just tolerate the misspellings. In my humble opinion all caps is far worse. It is also very difficult to read. I suspect most people just will not read your posts. It is just to much of an unpleasant experience.
It is that bad. A word to the wise…. Our goal here in this life to to be good, moral and righteous and rise above hate. To do bad to someone who did bad to you makes you no better than them. To do good to those who do bad shows true character and actual love, to be as mean, or evil or bad as them, what does that accomplish?
So in essence you are writing you are just like your Mother. I would never emulate the actions and words of someone who is as bad as you claim your Mother was. How does what you are doing make you any different than her? I took care of my Mother for 5 years and 8 months and YES it was very hard and stressful, but i did it because I believe in Honor they Mother and Father. I have just started working in a small nursing home, some patients get NO visitors, those family members make me sick!
A selfish person only thinks of them self and cries how it makes them sad and stressed out to see an ill family member. Do these selfish people, self centered fools ever for one minute stop and think how awful it is for their loved one to be removed from their rightful home and put into a nursing home where others are ill and scream and cry and are terrified?
Do these people care? Oh because i have a heart and I can see they are lonely, scared, feel unloved! And yeah the family who do not visit their loved ones are devoid of love, they have ZERO concept of what exactly love is, I kind of pity them, but i despise them too and am so grateful I am not friends with people like that, I suspect they fail as humans in many other arenas as well!
Not a soul is impressed by them,. See people who care for their ill loved ones, or the ones who put their loved ones away and yeah that is putting a person away, but those who put loved ones away and at the very least go see their loved ones in nursing homes, or assisted living facilities numerous times, or at least once a week KNOW they are doing what is right and yeah sometimes hard.
I treat them as if they are my family members, I have such compassion for these people, they are all sick in one way or another, most have dementia and my heart breaks for them. My mom is 77 and has dementia. She lives with me. She is hoarding and extremely messy. One bedroom looks like someone backed a dump truck up and dumped everything into it. When I try to organize it or clean, she gets mad at me. She constantly wants to sleep on the couch in the den.
She rarely bathes anymore. Lately she gets very mad at me and one day I thought she was going to beat me with her cane. I try to be patient with her, not pushy, but it seems that no matter what I do, it makes her angry. She calls other relatives and makes me sound like a bad person.
I want her to be happy, but Its taking its toll on me. What kind of world are we living in when a person who is clearly incapable mentally is allowed to do as they please according to law. My Mom has vascular dementia caused by strokes. She is only 70 and my Dad is her caregiver but he is a punching bag for her.
My Dad likes to golf but when he escapes for a couple hours to golf, my Mom is frantic and gives him the 3rd degree when he returns. I live close but am raising a family and am very busy being a Mom with kids although I always try to make time to see my parents. She has threatened to hit him and has become so angry and resentful and takes everything our on him. What can my brothers and I to get through to him when he constantly denies our recommendations? Both my parents have dementia with my dad being worse.
They were also alcoholics especially my dad. My mother all her life has mental problems but never diagnosed as she refused help. I was the oldest and had to babysit my siblings, clean house and cook.
My parents moved close to me 5 years ago due to my dads health issues. My mom went to ER with head injury. Mom was arrested 3 x in a month for assault on my dad who is older and frail. He was arrested one of those times. Went to court and they ordered forensic eval on them which took months. In the meantime there were more arrests by year end 5 for mom and 3 for dad , taking off in the car and getting lost, more ER visits and it goes on.
Eval showed both were deemed incompetent. Social services got involved and asked me to become their guardian. I am the only child out of 4 living close. So I put him in and my mom went crazier. She accused me of everything that happened to them. She abused and when they sent police out she assaulted him.
She would call us up, especially me, all night long and was VERY hateful. I had done involuntary committal, i had called mobile crisis many times and police. Several times when I tried to take her willingly for psych help she turned on me and started attacking me while driving.
She was combative and refused taking her meds. Also court ordered my parents to be apart. I had to put mom into a separate locked facility. This was costing them a fortune. My dads health went bad and he was placed in hospice.
I was having to meet drs, nurses, social workers etc and it got to be too much and run a struggling bakery. I closed the shop and was pulling both parents out to stay with me.
I redid my extra bedrooms for them but mom who came 1st could not handle it and 8 days later I was advised by mobile crisis after 2 calls in less than a week she needs to go back to locked facility. So now I care for my dad at my house, mom is in memory care facility.
I do visit a few times a month because she is my mother but honestly i could go without seeing her. I was always the one to clean up after my parents. I rarely caused any problems growing up but they both had limited education and I had to teach them more than them teaching me. I understand and learned so much from this experience.
I wish I could have kept my mom but sometimes its best they be in a facility and sometimes its best not to see them. I know I have done what I could for my parents and will continue to do so until they pass but i have to take care of myself too. My Dad was diagnosed with dementia 6 months ago, I have work in the health care field for years. I have to travel home because the house get very chaotic at times, to keep things calm.
I am doing the best I can, but often times I feel resentful because I feel like I have to put my life on hold in order to help the family. I had to drop my classes because I need to be there for my parents n my son.
Please suggestions, H E L P! So someone upvoted my comment and it brought me back to this thread. My grandmother has no short-term memory at all. She will ask a question, get an answer, and then ask the same question, and then get the same answer, then ask the same question again. She constantly accuses me of killing her cats and hiding their bodies. She demands I return x-item that I stole, even when the item is sitting in plain sight right in front of her. She declares that things have been stolen without even looking for them first.
She pathologically hides charging cables. She even takes the charging cable from my razor off the bathroom counter and hides it in her bedroom somewhere. She believes my brother sneaks in at night and watches her sleep.
When presented with proof that this is not the case, she is not convinced. She has called the police on me and told them that I abuse her never done anything of the sort; thankfully the cops believed me when she could provide absolutely no details on what the abuse in question was; or really even answer any of his questions.
The cop told me he routinely fields calls like this from demented old people. Probably most of them never even happened. She has randomly left the house and wandered off and gotten lost three times. Twice my mom found her and once a random passerby brought her home. She constantly screams about my mom controlling her money and her not having a car.
She believes she should be able to drive. My mother took control of her money because she was ruining herself financially by paying anyone who she saw soliciting on television no matter how ridiculous or scammy. I basically hate her. For my grandmother will soon be put in a home too. It becomes the only option. She has done this over forty times now.
She refuses to even try using that or the microwave. Anything that deviates from her experiences 40 years ago is just not feasible because in her damaged brain, it just does not compute.
Basically anything that she sees, be it a jar of mayonnaise or her cat, will immediately trigger her relaying a specific anecdote always the same anecdote for each specific item. It is the most annoying shit imaginable. So I have no choice but to sit there and nod my head.
Of course, I keep that locked up deep inside and never show this to her. Somehow I always remain kind to her. These burdens are going to ruin and backrupt the nation. My grandmother told me herself in no uncertain terms before she lost her mind that she would absolutely not want to live in such a way. See, my grandmother and I were very close and she would tell me things she would not tell other people. She did not account for losing her mind though.
And what are we really, other than our minds? I stopped her and was like, yeah you told me this. Then she immediately starts asking me about the trees outside and what do I think of them, should they be cut down? She has been asking me this question four or five times a day for a year now. For me to do it alone, I would have to stake them down and cut carefully, and even then I could maybe accidentally get myself killed.
When I point this out, she remains unconvinced. I was like, Granny you keep asking me this same question. And I keep giving you the same thoughtful answer. Enough about the trees. She immediately flips the fuck out, calls me a liar that she never in fact asked me before and runs into her room and closes the door this is typical.
I want one thing in this life, and that is for her to die and for me to not have to see her, listen to her, or take care of her, ever again.
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