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Every day polyamorous singles, couples, triads and other poly tribes and families are creating genuine friendships and true love connections on SwingTowns! So you want to be non-monogamous. Whether you yourself are new to non-monogamous relationships , getting involved with someone who is new, or just ready for a refresher course, here are seven common myths about non-monogamous relationships and the facts that disprove them.

A quick online search yields many a claim that cheating was, in fact, a type of a non-monogamous relationship. That, however, is like saying that stealing is a type of trade.

Make no mistake - just because a relationship is non-monogamous does not mean that cheating is impossible. If a couple agrees to threesomes only but one partner makes out with a stranger in a bar? Four parties in a group relationship agree not to involve new partners before getting tested, but then someone does the deed prematurely?

Non-monogamy is not something that takes place in dark corners and on password protected apps without the knowledge and consent of all parties involved. As do monogamous relationships, non-monogamous relationships require mutual trust and respect, while cheating undermines trust, respect and consent. To wit, cheating may fit the criteria of non-monogamy to the extent that there are more than two.

But if everyone is not on board? Right away that necessitates a lot more planning than monogamous folk have to worry about. Except…you agreed with your primary partner that Thursday was their day to ensure your quality time. Do you wait two weeks and risk the fizzle, or talk to your partner about making an exception? When there are more than two, it gets a lot more complicated.

Especially in modern society where traditional dating rituals are quickly being deemed old-fashioned and uncool, and people are more inclined to just go with the flow.

Such a thing is not a realistic option with multiple partners, which requires a greater level of transparency upfront and necessitates constant communication. But scheduling is not even the most intense challenge that people who chose to practice non-monogamy find themselves faced with. The biggest challenge non-monogamous folks face is rather monstrous, in fact. As it turns out, neither is the case. People who practice non-monogamy are more than aware of the existence of jealousy, and more than capable of experiencing it themselves.

Jealousy, while it can be worked with and talked through , is a natural emotion that even those of us who choose to take a non-traditional path still experience. In comparison with monogamy, in fact, it forces a kind of work on trust that monogamous relationships bypass via the terms of monogamy.

But non-monogamy turns that on its head. Once possession is removed, the love between two or more people is no longer defined by what they will not do with others, but by what they actually feel and have together. You are not being asked simply to trust that your partner will obey your mutually established rules , but instead to trust in your mutually established love.

Trust that a casual tryst will not threaten your love. Trust that a new partner is truly an addition and not a replacement. Trust that even as a secondary or tertiary lover, you are still cared for and respected.

Not to knock the merits or challenges of monogamy, but where time management, jealousy and trust are concerned, non-monogamous folk have a bit of a fuller plate, if I must say so myself. Do not be fooled into believing that the option to love and be loved by more than one human makes non-monogamy easy. It may feel like a more natural state of being, but nevertheless, as with all interpersonal relationships, hard work is not only expected but required. While that does make logical sense, love knows not of logic, and as fate would have it monogamous and non-monogamous people can and frequently do find themselves involved, in love, and in relationships.

Refer to myth two! It requires compromise and understanding. Perhaps the parties involved agree that the monogamous partner will continue to practice monogamy while the non-monogamous partner is free to practice a form of non- monogamy. I dated a man who was monogamous by nature, and was so with me, but was comfortable with my having a girlfriend in addition to our relationship, even though my relationship with her did not involve him [read: Similarly, perhaps an ordinarily monogamous partner will test and stretch their limits, agreeing to a mostly monogamous relationship with a swingers party here or a threesome there on occasion.

At the end of the day we are all more than the labels we assign ourselves, and people who may seem unlikely to mesh on paper can and do attract. As long as trust, respect and consent are part of the formula, a mono and a poly can surely make it work.

To the monogamous world, two people who essentially belong to each other is the only kind of fathomable commitment in existence. Since non-monogamous relationships function without the ideas of possession in play, some feel that this means commitment cannot and does not exist. Commitment absolutely can and does exist within non-monogamous relationships. Take the earlier example. My boyfriend was committed to me. I was committed to him.

I was also committed to my girlfriend. She was committed to me. She was also committed to her boyfriend. He was committed to her. Conventional relationship ideals may claim this is ludicrous, but think of the structure of a family. Think of a mother who has more than one child. Does the arrival of baby number two mean that suddenly baby number one is getting tossed aside? So it looks like this thing between us is coming to a close, as your little brother will be arriving in just a few short weeks.

I hope we can still be friends. Multiple relationships can exist, all of them committed. This can be, but is not always the case. There are different types of non-monogamy, some where all parties involved are absolutely equal - in terms of love and commitment, that is - some where they are not.

The following are some but not all examples of non-monogamous relationships. These two people are committed to each other, and each other alone. The terms may vary, but typically it means that while the two can pursue physical thrills outside of the relationship, their loyalty lies with their respective partner alone. Very similar to an open relationship , there is a primary couple and they are loyal to each other alone.

This can even be considered a type of open relationship, but it is characterized by the couple exploring pursuits outside their relationship together, if not always simultaneously. Going to a swingers party together, potentially finding an activity to participate in together, both parties participating in different activities, or one or both not necessarily partaking at all. Unlike the open relationship, a polyamorous relationship allows for multiple relationships multiple loves, if you will at the same time.

Other relationships, while they may indeed be loving, will not take precedence over the primary relationship. Here there are multiple relationships but without hierarchy. The relationships may intermingle, they may not. Group relationships may form, they may not. And they may as well in hierarchal poly, I might add. There is no first tier, second tier, third tier. All things being equal is the goal.

This form of non-monogamy is exactly what it sounds like. A sort of amorous chaos. It allows all relationships with others to be what they are, when they are, whatever they are, without operating within tiers of importance, defined parameters or preset expectations.

The ultimate exercise in relationship freedom, it is living and loving without limits, and letting the relationship chips fall where they may. The important thing to understand is that committed non-monogamy is not necessarily just a version of monogamy with some casual sex thrown in here and there.

Can the two exist together? First, non-monogamy is not kink in and of itself. But when people think of non-monogamy, their minds go to one place - fast.

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I feel smug at my desk all afternoon and count the minutes until the weekend. Some couples like to go out for dinner or go out dancing on the weekend, but we like to go to swingers clubs or parties and get playful.

After a couple of years of marriage and a couple more together prior to that, I told Eric that I had a fantasy of being pleasured by two men at once. I just imagined it would stay a naughty fantasy. That was the turning point for our relationship. Eric and I have rules. We only play together, never apart. The whole idea is that this enhances our love life so being able to see, if not touch, each other at all times is a must.

I love watching Eric with another woman across the room. Saturday nights are late nights. We catch a cab home together and debrief about the evening. We climb into bed exhausted but satisfied. Alice and Eric are regulars on the swinger club scene. Sunday is fun day. After a sleep in, we lie in bed with coffee and rehash the evening, which usually ends leads to another romp.

We invite some swinger friends over for a casual BBQ. One of the best things about being part of our community is that we are super social and enjoy hanging out with like-minded people. Eric and I have one particular couple we both love to spend time with. When the chemistry is good between the four of you, your senses simply explode.

A cacophony of hands touching you, mouths all over your body. The sensory overload is awesome. Our work friends have no idea what we do for fun and if they did, frankly, I think their brains would burst. Monday night we just hang out like any regular couple. No crazy outfits or toys. We see our lifestyle as an added extra to an already beautiful relationship, not something we have to do every day to keep things spicy.

I like to do my sexy admin on Tuesdays. I know admin is usually not sexy but this is a little different. I have a blog where I write about our swinging adventures. Sometimes people contact me through the blog, or the club we go to will send newbies my way if they need some more information about what happens and what to expect from coming to one of our play nights.

I love introducing new people to our community and helping them to feel safe and comfortable exploring their fantasies. Probably because pop culture is jealous of all the sex they're having while it spends every Friday night rebooting comic book movies. Marvel Studios "Pfft, happily married couples swinging? Okay, let's get back to our protagonist who sleeps with tons of women because he's totally and irreparably emotionally stunted.

Tom used to assume that "swingers would be out on the prowl, looking for unsuspecting innocent people to convert. Maybe some weird, shady Eyes Wide Shut secret society where you would need a password to get in. And really, how much luring would be required to draw single people into awesome sex? Part of the reason might be that there are plenty of them.

The Kinsey Institute estimates that there may be as many as four million swingers in America alone. As a result, most swingers tend to assume that anyone interested in swinging their genitals about is already doing it.

Knowing someone is already open to non-monogamy is a lot easier than lecherously trying to reel disinterested parties in: But that doesn't mean all -- or even most -- swingers are open about it.

And I like it that way. Most swingers don't want their family, friends, or coworkers to know about their lifestyle. So there has to be a lot of discretion and secrecy. And because of It's Always Sunny , they have to be more creative with their passwords.

Part of that is because many of the nation's swingers have careers where being even a little bit outside the mainstream can hinder your advancement: In Madison, Tennessee, a bunch of wet blankets got together to ban their local swinger's club from acting within a thousand feet of any school, church, daycare, or park large groups of kinky people apparently give off some sort of sexy radiation.

Since the whole city was basically closed to them, the swingers created their own church instead. Tom doesn't want to portray an unreasonably rosy situation inside the lifestyle: Maybe it's jealousy someone is getting more attention , or maybe it just makes people feel better about themselves at least we don't go to furry-bondage-bukkake parties like those weirdos , but it seems like human nature always takes over, and people will try to prop themselves up at the expense of someone else.

When we wrote an article busting myths about BDSM , our source pointed out some weird conflicts between her subculture and swingers.

Both often wound up renting out the same facilities, or using the same clubs on different nights, and while there was some cross-pollination, there's also a fair amount of conflict. It's like an X-rated West Side Story situation. And just because swingers are open-minded about non-monogamy doesn't mean they're necessarily cool with, say, bisexuality. However, there is a huge amount of biphobia when it comes to men. Most couples make a point of saying the man is percent straight, some will turn down anything where the man is listed as any form of bisexual, bi-curious, or even bi-comfortable, and some will even refuse to get together with anyone who has played with a bisexual man, regardless of whether any male-to-male sex happened.

So you have people in the lifestyle who are already leading a secret life, and then another secret life within that. God forbid there's a bisexual swinging secret agent in that mix anywhere -- their heads would explode. When relationships stop working, there's often enormous pressure to "fix" whatever's gone wrong. Some people try to do that by opening up their relationship. In Tom's experience, that's generally a disastrous decision: Sure enough, I found out in a conversation with her that they were going through some very rough times, and she was hoping that swinging would help keep them together.

It seemed obvious to me that it was having the exact opposite effect and causing more strain on their relationship. I guess in some ways, it's like people who think that having a baby will help fix a broken marriage. It might distract you from the problems in the short term, but in the end it will just compound them. But the fact that swinging won't save a doomed relationship doesn't mean it makes for a doomed relationship.

One study of more than a thousand swingers found that the vast majority reported that swinging made them happier with their relationships. The key is that they weren't unhappy with their relationships before. People who swing, like people in open relationships , tend to be better at communicating than the norm. And good communication will do more to strengthen your relationship than a dozen key parties. Tom and his wife didn't get into swinging because their relationship needed a Band-Aid: We have a very strong marriage and always agree that our relationship comes first.

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