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FlourishAnyway believes there is a playlist for just about any situation and is on a mission to unite and entertain the world through song. Many of us may feel temporary i. Yet with weakened social ties, one out of five Americans feels chronically lonely. And for adults over the age of 45, it's one in three.
If you're one of them, then you have a lot of company. There are many pop, rock, and country about social isolation, loneliness, and being alone. Make yourself a playlist using the long list of songs we've put together.
On occasion, we've all probably felt like the narrator in this song. He feels isolated, unheard, and as disconnected from others as a satellite in outer space. Trying desperately to reach out, he wants to rejoin humanity.
Does anyone hear his signal? The woman in this song meets back up with a former lover and instead of feeling sparks, she finds herself going through the motions. She's trying to fill an empty heart with temporary physical pleasure as only the lonely can do.
With just a shadow as his company, the narrator in this song walks the empty streets, the Boulevard of Broken Dreams. Envision him wandering past closed down storefronts, foreclosed homes, and abandoned buildings. In the silence, he hears the beating of his shallow heart and sometimes wishes that someone else would find him.
Were you one of the cool kids in high school who basked in the spotlight of popularity? Or were you on the other extreme, an invisible "other" who was relegated to the sidelines?
The invincible cool kids in this song drive fast cars, relish the good life, and enjoy each other as friends. They are the envy of their less fortunate peers who blend quietly into the background.
The unpopular kids experience a burden of hardship and rejection that the cool kids cannot fathom. Everyone wants to be like the cool kids. There's nothing like broken trust to mess with someone's heart and head for good. In this sad country song from , a woman has become accustomed to goodbyes. She clings to men she shouldn't, one cowboy right after another. However, she seems to get no satisfaction from these flings. The song is told from the perspective of the regretful man who was once her partner until he betrayed her:.
She don't love you, she's just lonely She wasn't once upon a time I remember her in the sunlight I remember her when she was mine, mine.
There's a simple moral in this song: Watch out when you fool around on your one and only because you'll go from being happy to Mr. That's exactly what happened to the narrator. The lonely man in this classic rock song desperately wants to be loved, but he's also afraid of playing the part of the fool in the relationship.
He has a new love interest in his life. However, having been burned in the past, he feels torn between hope and his fear of being a fool once more.
Do you ever notice how everyone is blissfully in love when you're lonely and single? The guy in this song misses his ex-girlfriend. Suddenly the whole world seems in love, and he's on the outside looking in:. I wish the couple on the corner would just get a room Seems like everyone around me is on their honeymoon.
I'd love to take a pin to a heart shaped balloon Everybody's got somebody but me. You don't have to be single to be lonely. People who are trapped in dead-end marriages can feel lonesome, isolated as well as trapped. This country ballad is about a couple that has grown so far apart that they don't even know one another any longer:.
The lone wolf narrator of this rock song seems to have totally internalized his loneliness. He calls himself a drifter and claims he was born to walk alone. He also says, " I know what it means to walk along the lonely street of dreams. That's even worse than the risks of obesity or smoking. Desperate events are happening to the person in this song, and the narrator is attempting to reach out to show support before it's too late.
He's trying to bridge the empty divide, but is it too late? In this beautiful country ballad from , pride keeps the narrator lonely because he cannot admit to anyone that he misses his former partner. While he pretends that he's better off without her, privately he spends sad days and sleepless nights wishing for her to return. When a romance ends, so, too, does a friendship. This country song emphasizes that friendship between lovers involves shared laughter, secrets, and a whole lot of time spent together outside of the bedroom.
In this power ballad, a lonely narrator who longs for love and companionship recalls his youth. Love was once just a game to him, but now he yearns to share his life with someone. Feeling rejected by the most wonderful girl he's ever known, the narrator in this song feels dejected and lonely. She stole his world and left him an emotional wreck, and he knows she won't be back. He needs to find a way to pick up the pieces and start over.
The narrator in this rock song is in a dark place emotionally. He's struggling and disconnected from other people. Worse yet, he doesn't know how to make his way back:. And now again I've found myself So far down, away from the sun That shines to light the way for me.
Loneliness has made the narrator of this song a mere shell of who she used to be. A broken relationship has left her the ghost of her former self. Now at 2 a. Each passing day is lonely for the narrator in this song, but the nights are sheer hell. He misses someone he loves and is haunted by memories he cannot quiet. Unable to sleep, he drives away through the night as an escape. In this country hit, it's 1: The lonesome narrator has photos of a former partner spread out all over her floor as she reminisces.
Our girl is half-soused after a night of whiskey drinking, and now she's about to make a big mistake: Someone knock the phone out of her hand. Whether he's surrounded by a large crowd or there's no one in sight, the guy in this song finds himself dancing alone.
Some critics contend that the song alludes to engaging in other solitary activities by oneself if ya know what I mean. However, Billy Idol has insisted that the lyrics were inspired by the s Japanese club scene. Instead of dancing with a partner, Japanese youth of the time watched themselves pogo dancing in the mirror. So what's the truth? You be the judge.
Sign in or sign up and post using a HubPages Network account. Comments are not for promoting your articles or other sites. Juuso Rantala - Thank you for the song suggestion. I added it as Have a great day! Sheena India - I'm sorry to hear about the conditions that you find yourself in.
I hope you can reach out to someone you trust a relative, a neighbor and start to build an alliance that way. You are in my thoughts. I'm not alouded to talk anyone. Paul - I am sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your sister's story and yours.
Some people are lone wolves in life for whatever reason and others are ostracized, marginalized by family members, neighbors, and others for their habits or life choices, ideas, or behaviors.
It's sad that family cannot overcome some differences to reaffirm their common bond. Lonely People" by America is on the list as I wish you peace and happiness as you look for your sense of community around you. There are so many other lonely people waiting to make connections with others. Reach out to those around you. My oldest sister died a few days ago from emphysema. She was a difficult person, and many of my 9 other siblings more or less ignored her. I kept contact with her through the years, and early on I stood on the sidelines of our family with her, and instead of caring for the other members of my family, I criticized them, especially our our mom.
I broke away from that several decades ago, and it became more difficult to relate to her. I wonder about people who push other people away, or find it difficult to reach out and ask for help.
I can be in a crowd with a pretty girl hanging on my every word and still feel alone, awkward and unwanted…. When I was younger I had a hundred one night stands when all I wanted was one love…but I ran away every time. Why did you have to mention pretty girl? This is part of the problem. Why do people have to be pretty. I like your thinking! I feel very much the same way, i keep hoping i will find people like you have discribed.
Hey John, I think we would both be surprised to hear just how many others feel this at one time or another. We sound like we may have some shared experience here. I wonder if these feelings are a call from the universe to dig deep and attune with our inner selves.
I think much can be learnt if we do this. Mindfulness has really helped me. Happy seeking John from a similar soul. John i have felted that way my whole life and i am 46 now and still feel that way.
I think you should embrace the things you like to do. Or challenge yourself in new ways — learn something new, step outside your comfort zone. Those kind of things may feel awkward at first, but generally boosts your self image and confidence after a little while! What A meant was that by occupying ourselves fully and devoting all our energies to our hobbies, we would think and feel less about being alone. This will distract us from focusing on our Negative Inner Critic.
Instead we would be so engrossed that we would be in a state of flow that time will pass by so fast without us noticing it. Your feeling almost same like what I am having. I am the only child in the family and I was feeling lonely since from my childhood days, but it was disappeared when I was at my 25 to 34 but it is coming again in my life and feeling worst now.
Having with some friends or with hubby but still feeling lonely and incomplete. Fearing about future is making me worst like how could I stand this feeling at my elderly age later since I am feeling that lonely at my late 30 now.
At least good to know that there are many people feeling same like me in this world. I was always a loner at school. Not that I never had any friend but I never wanted to be with them all the time.
However, at home I used to be a very naughty and fun-loving kid, popular with all of my 27 cousins. But that was until I got married 5 years back. And I feel really lonely and I crave to go back to my days before marriage.
I am reading your article and I am smiling alone, because that is axactly how I feel. I also have tendency of thinking that some od my friends are discussing about me and they just pretend to like me by fake smiles. It makes me uncinfortabke around people. We are the same.
I feel even bad for the ppl that hang on at my side , deep on me I know they will go someday. Just let go of your fears! I know exactly what you mean. I have great friends they are like my brothers.
But its a good cry.. I hope this makes sense: I actually had the same thing a couple of days ago, was at a bar with a friend and when I walked home I almost immediately started crying… felt displaced and alone, even though I was with people I like.. I am used to this feeling, it is very hard to make it over a bit. I feel so lonely. I am going thru so much. I have no car due to waiting for my bankrupsy to be discharged.
I did everything right and there was no dispute. I need a car. Tomorrow is my birthday and no one remembered it and my kids seem hopeless most of the time. If i dont visit them, i dont see them for weeks and they live close by.
I wishi could just move and go somewhere i could meet new ppl and never look back at my lousy family. Me too, left the man i love because of mental, emotional abusive. Unloved and tremendios degregstion day in and out.
With hid friends, family and strangerd who told him, he shoild not talk that way about your wife and avoided him. Since i did not have the courage and strenght to leave him, as every one told me over and over that i deserve better and can do better.
My children took me away and desided it is time they take care of their mother. And here i am being loved and care for. Missing him and dont want him at the same time after being with him for 18 yrs.
Almost 2 yrs now. Am lonely, sad depress and yearning to be in the arms of a msn, which have yet to do. I am a beautifull pracefull new city. The part i live it is upscsle. No one around to interact with. Working on self help via internet information. My story is like that bit i realy will fell alone even though i have friends but not Many but this things make me feel alone. I was just crying and now I feel a bit better?
I always have troubles with crying because it makes me feel weak…. I understand you Michelle. I came from Europe to US. Prior to coming to US I was struggling, maybe more than you do, but now even if I have everything that I ever wanted I still feel alone. I have a husband who loves me and a little girl but I still need friends, true friends with whom to do things.
So, like you I thought that having everything will make me happy but I am not, at least not always. We need this balance, financial security, family who loves us but also friends. I had the chance to experience a different life style in Europe.
I miss people caring about you, getting together with cousins, neighbors coming to your house and looking in your fridge or borrowing things. But when I was there all I needed was to have financial security. I thought that this could make you happy but is not like that. We need all of it to be happy. I live for my little girl and I really hope that she will not be like me. I am hesitating to talk to strangers and if someone talks to me I stay away.
Hang in there Michelle and try to find your hope somewhere to help you feel a little better. I feel better that I am not alone feeling like this even if this might sound cruel. I genuinely want happiness for all the people in the world. I moved 3 years ago from my hometown to the US and it was extremely difficult. Making friends here is just not a natural thing to do.
I tried so many times to get closer to people in the U. I had friends I trusted and loved, people who cared about me… my family issues are never ending because of my sexuality, and when I decided to come out hell let lose.. I know leaving was the best thing I ever did… but yet.. A lot of people tell me it has to come from within.. I honestly can tell you because I started relying on myself.. I thought why do I need people? I have an extreme trust issues… and I need to overcome it..
I just think I need friends and a life that has meaning …. I love all of u becuz we are all experiencing the same feelings. The root cause of it all is fear and lack of love. I have a chronic illness that has required me to file SSD. I got approved and it has hit me like I have been sentenced to life in prison. I had a HUGE social network. The few times I have gone out in the past 3 yrs I feel like a fraud because you can not look at me and tell I have a chronic disease.
So I hide and die a little more each day. I have a chronic illness too. So, I get it, I really do. You are not alone. Whitney — OMG I am going through the same thing and have no family. I was always independent financially and the illness ruined me. From the outside I had it all, but on the inside I never did.
OMG……I feel the same way. It is horrible……and I feel like i have painted myself into a corner. What can we do. It feels like I am slowly dying…………………….. If you look up dr sebi electric food list on his site…Imaybe you can try to change your eating habits and get some suppoements that may help.
I posted this for everybody with your issue to at least give it a try. I wish you and everyone else well. I feel like I need that one person I could talk to that relates to me.
I feel the same and I blame myself or the cultural differences. This was very helpful i wont lie i was on the verge of suicided i thought things would never change and that i couldnt talk to anyone cause they didnt understand me but reading this has given me hope on life again. It happened to me too but God gave me hope.
I swear, hope saves you from anything, you just need to find it. Cj Major hugs to you hun. You hang onto that hope forever. It could even be a happy memory, even tho I know those are hard to think of at times like this. Hi Claire I totally know how you feel except from a stay at home dad with 3 children point of view.
I wasnt the most social person even before I had kids. My wife and I dont really have any personal friends. Being a stay at home is tough even though I go to childrens playgroups its not like I get real close to other mums as being a guy theirs a line that is drawn.
My wife wants me to go back to work to get back my self confidence mainly and well extra income as well even though we wouldnt get any further ahead as children daycare costs etc. Eventually it will happen though, I try an remain optimistic. Have you thought of part time work? You really need some guy friends which is hard to do when you are stay at home dad. Even if there are extra costs associated with childcare, your mental health is worth more. Or perhaps you can trade with a mother of the classmates where you look after her kids one day and she does the next.
I tell him that I always have to fish the words out of him. I want so much a better life quality. I want her to be happy with me and not inherit this behavior from me. Where do you live?
Men like to fix things, solution oriented. That would be unfair burden. You have luxury of not having to work or maybe you would like to work? They have been life saver for me especially since I have worsening chronic illness.
Like Dawson and all of us, baby steps. Next day, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and try again. There are no rules or failures.
Hi Alina I thought that finding a mate would help me but your post has given me second thoughts? Wish you luck Mike. Like a lot of people here, I feel chronically isolated and lonely. I am 27, single, no friends and unemployed.
Any conversation I have with strangers or family is brief and superficial. I posted a comment here, earlier, reaching out for help but my message was excluded. Thank you for reaching out. When we feel isolated and alone, we often turn against ourselves, which makes it difficult to reach out and break the pattern of loneliness. However, if you are feeling alone, reaching out to any friends and family even by phone or online can help to break that pattern.
I understand that this feels very difficult to do. Even making new friends in online discussion forums can help you feel more connected to others, especially if they share similar interests. Some people find that they feel better being around other people, even just reading a book or going online in a coffee shop can feel less isolating than being at home alone.
Lisa Firestone suggests that individuals who feel chronically isolated participate in volunteer work, because reaching out to others has many benefits for mental health, including helping people feel less isolated and alone. Many people have found therapy to be incredibly helpful. If you are interested in pursuing therapy, here is good resource to help locate a therapist in your area. You do not have to be suicidal in order to call the Lifeline.
Also, if you are feeling depressed, I encourage you to read this article on 8 Ways to Actively Fight Depression. I know it is very tough. I have a sister and even she is far away from me I talk to her on skype and she always encourages me. This is what I do, I want to find peace, and be strong for my little girl. I know, I feel the same. Hey CJ I understand your struggle buddy. I am also an only child. I am actually also The older I get.. Rainer Maria Rilke once said that to confront our solitude is very difficult.
For something to be so difficult is one more reason for us to do it. The benefits of doing something we would rather not or fear doing can be vast in self accomplishment. Even if it is something as hard as spendin your time with yourself. I hope this message makes it to you in time brother. The stream of consciousness that runs throughout all of us is strong in me. Or if your life had no purpose. Yet I love you. Hi Gil, My son is an only child and I am worried sick. I have family but they can care less about me and my son.
It sucks so bad. We are always alone. Someone please help me. But I can tell you this: But most importantly, he just wants to express his feelings by talking to someone- anyone- or writing down how he feels. Please jst let him know how you feel about him and find him something that can make him forget about his bad thoughts. Hey, I feel exactly like u.
Actually I also suffer from social anxiety and am on a mental health care plan. I feel stupid a lot… And i feel like people think i might be stupid but are just trying to be nice. I feel super sad right now… I really want someone to talk to, and to love. Since January, my sleeping pattern has gone all wrong, I sleep late at night and end up waking up at 4pm. I have been feeling very lonely and its like my mind is not looking forward to the next day so I just sleep it away. With the few hours of day I have left I go on youtube to watch some videos.
And since my mind is still somewhat active, I end up sleeping very late. And felling nervous of wasting the whole day because i sleep late. I know uncertainty is a reality for everyone, but it really shook me just now. I constantly feel unworthy to be in this position and often feel like the outcast in social situations. I have mastered the art. I had an eating disorder bulimia in varying degrees of severity sometimes not for a couple months, but I would be taking a lot of drugs for 5 years, but that ended about 18months ago.
Not having drugs and alcohol and turning to this old form of self-abuse is making me think I legitimately have a mental health issue that I need to talk to someone about.
I wish I could access a counselling service here like back home! In the meantime I hope this post acts as a cathartic practise and I know I need to start meditating and building up my self-worth third chakra or whatever you want to call it. Hopefully then I will feel more comfortable with myself and stop worrying all the time! Thanks for reading if you got this far! I am sorry that you have been experiencing such strong feelings of isolation. It sounds like you have overcome a lot, like breaking your self-abuse with drugs and alcohol.
It would be great to find some form of therapeutic support while you are on your exchange. This website can help you locate a therapist internationally: I wake up in the late afternoon till the early morning. Before I lived with my 2 brothers, my uncle, and grandpa.
Especially when my brothers go out to have fun, and comes back for how many days without permission, they were never scolded. As a girl, I told them where I was going, and it was 8 at night, they called my friends parents to ask them where I was.
I was greatly humiliated at school. It was unfair for me. It felt like I had no freedom. Now that me and my 2 bros moved to where our parents are, I got closer to my brothers. My physical appearance change drastically… I gained 50 pounds, and gained pimples because of puberty. I have friends that are girls too, and I share some of my personal stuff to them.
I still feel lonely and depressed. Whenever my brothers or father invite a guy to our house, I feel isolated. When my brother goes out to drink with guys friends, he would invite my other brother, but of course since I was a girl, and the youngest… I was never invited.
I started cutting myself out of boredom. It helps me suppress my urge to want something, and cry because of some food I want to eat that I will never get for example. I talk to myself, laugh by myself, I let out my emotions silently that nobody will ever notice. Then, as it continued, I hear my self thinking about bad stuff. Thinking about doing something bad to my good friends, and to strangers or characters I just made up in my mind.
When my oldest brother saw the cuts, he looked at me like I was some fuckin devil. I tried my best to hide it, and when I saw how he looked at me. I was deeply sad and depressed. I always ask God… especially, when we had bible study, I was still the only girl at first.. I want to cut myself right now, but there are visitors… so maybe later. We read your comment and know it takes courage to reach out when you are in distress. Often when we feel isolated, we turn against ourselves and find it difficult to reach out for help.
However, we want you to know that help is available and there is hope. PsychAlive is not a counseling site, but we can offer resources where you can get assistance 24 hours per day. If you are in the U. It is especially important to reach out when you are feeling isolated and have the desire to harm yourself. We hope that you remain safe and continue to reach out. Please do not do anything to hurt yourself. If you feel your Critical Inner Voice has taken you over, you may benefit from seeking professional help.
You can find a therapist at http: Hi Aaron, what do you meaning your critical inner voice has taken over and WON?? This helped a lot. It is amazing to see how many people face this loneliness syndrome. I for example have felt very lonely for years despite having a family and kids. But I never wanted them to solve my problems. I am separated now living in another state and when I go out, I look good, exercise, eat right, have a job, am 50 now and it seems like I am out of touch with everyone else.
I find it hard to meet people that have things in common with me now. Reaching to younger people and especially the opposite sex is a big waste of time and effort because I think they now see me as old even though I have no grey hair or look older than my age.
In fact I look younger and energetic. I see everyone with friends, girlfriends, wives, all hanging out and I am the only person out there with nobody to hang out with despite several meetup tries. I thought that God just made me different than everybody else and not meant to have friends or company after work or on weekends.
I spend a lot of time alone and live alone. Part of me thinks that maybe evil surrounds us to make us feel terrible and that we have to break this thinking pattern and start believing that God can work miracles in our lives and changes these feelings of self-destruction.
I am going to work out more and build my body stronger and work on my mind so it is stronger. Joining a church might help too. I think that all evil feelings must come from evil and all good feelings must come from God. So why waste my life away feeling sorry for myself? Worst comes to worst, I will just become my own very best friend. Some very old people seem to have a handle on this and feel happy even at their old age so why should I be in self-pity mode all the time?
Today I will change for the better and never look back. Best of luck to all of us lonely people who feel weird among other people. We are not alone. Good for you and I wish you the best going forward. We can ever completely escape the negative or isolated thoughts that occasionally rush up on us that we are lonely. Last summer I had two butterflies who apparently had taken up residence in my backyard somewhere.
I would see them almost daily running around the couple of hundred square feet. Best of luck to you. Please check in and share how you are doing. I know I am allowing little things and annoying people get to me, but maybe it is a good thing. I have such pent-up emotion, I need to release it before I explode. So I am trying to look at it as positive. On the other hand, I may only be fooling myself. I sure hope not! This article is utter crap. The natural bonding is just not there. Did the author stop to consider the poor advice contained in this article?
The words may work for people who like to pretend they are lonely, but you have NEVER experienced real loneliness unless you have solipsism. This article should come with a warning. Are you an expert or a Doctor? Stupid comments like that are the reason why these problems go unresolved. How dare you judge anyone elses feelings.. Learn to have an open mind and heart and know that no one is right or wrong in there experiences. Andy, I think you are a tad harsh.
I know a little bit about Asperger but not enough to totally understand the isolation you must be feeling. There is loneliness that is the result of being isolated from other, and there is loneliness which is the result of being separate from the self. This second state is irreparable and cannot be undone by social contact. I posit that this second state is far worse than the former. I am so glad to see this topic of discussion I have a critical inner voice not often representative of what is happening in reality, though sometimes these thoughts happen when a situation happens where it triggers me to question my self worth.
First off I really want a girlfriend and too get laid more often. I also am Catholic and go to church am involved at my church but the parishioners are older and I have not met anyone. I have had sex in midlife and had a girlfriend a few yrs ago. I used to be painfully shy with women and im trying to overcome that by making eye contact and at places like the gym or coffee hour after mass making conversation, but I do get nervous when an attractive woman is around me as negative thought after negative thought fires up, that she thinks im ugly, desperate, gay , a rapist, stalker and from an outsiders view this would seem ridiculous and unreasonable.
But inside my own head I start to get anxiety and these thoughts go. I also have a lot of jealousy issues. Even though I know I could not commit such a horrible sin as my Faith guides me not too and I would not put that sadness on my parents who love me and friends and people at church. I am looking for a younger congregation. I pray that my life gets better but as of late I have felt like my life has become relentless, fulfilling, boring and when I nightingale steps to change it does not work, I feel like all my friends are happier then I am, my cousins are all married and happy and ill never have that and feel like my family dissent take me seriously.
I know my parents love me and they know about the depression , but I hide it as much as I can, I am seeing a therapist but I only see him once a month.
I am so glad to see I am not alone in having these unwanted feelings. I have many issues like all of you in particular the whole being single thing bothers me, gives me anxiety and horrible thoughts. I am 26 years old and currently live at home with my parents and I am single.
I am tall, brown haired, clean shaven and in fairly good shape , and I am a vegetarian. Some people have told me I should try out for modeling. Being single bothers me and I really want a girlfriend and I want to get laid more.
I often feel lonely when I see happy couples who look happy, or happy couples making out and the voices start going off in my head about how i am considered fat, unattractive and how ill be single and alone my whole life.
I have had sex in the past and had a girlfriend, but I am shy and the weird thing is people on the outside would consider me an extrovert and yet on the inside I feel the opposite. I am Catholic and go to church and put faith in GOD and pray my life gets better. I am still living with my parents and ashamed of it. I often have thoughts that I will live with my parents my whole life and that nothing will never change.
People except my parents see my smile outside and see this upbeat and confident guy, but I feel insecure and worthless on the inside often. I feel jealous of less attractive men who get laid every night. I get very jealous of others too, even just random happy people I see, groups of friends, couples, you name it. I am attractive, but feel undesirable still. This is really quite the rut to be in. I run and go to the gym and I feel better doing those activities.
That is a good way to work off depression. Very isolated and anti-social. None of you are alone. Its all surface crap and meaningless dialogue. Back in time when earths population was numbered in the millions there was a great deal of isolation. Without being to wordy I will add some things I find helps.
Books, literature is quite awesome and a way to stay connected, nothing like a good book to engross you in human thought. Nature is spectacular, please spend more time in it. The search for self is also a wonderful thing. It never gets old, the questions, why am I here, who am I, what is important in what I think?
Of course number one is I have found Jesus Christ to be about the best friend a person can have. Let me say this quickly…that empty house, not so empty anymore, that empty lonely life, not so empty anymore once one has a relationship with God. I was in the grocery check out line on Friday, the lady looked tired, about my age, when she handed me the receipt I looked deep into her eyes and said thank you [Connie], have a great weekend.
Her whole face lit up…. I think I made her day. Who says being isolated and lonely prevents us from affecting others positively. Ya know that interaction made my day too. Seek that and you will find it. Revel in your independence, there is a whole world out there waiting to be explored if only through reading and visual arts, media and entertainment. Being the best you can be alone can matter. Anonymous 22 October Reply Looking for a song: Oh my my, oh my my, never did I like the mornings, But waking up next to you, is always such a different story,.
I only remember the first sentence of the song: Anonymous 22 October Reply for all my life and i feel like dancing, over and over and over again. Anonymous 22 October Reply hi guys i'm looking for a song that has these words in it, please help. Neo Inoue 22 October Reply I can't find this song and it's been bugging me for a few weeks I've spent hours trying to find this song it's an upbeat song that I've heard in a YouTube ad for a comic app and u only remember a bit of the lyrics But baby I ain perfect I now I've hurt you Seriously that's all I can remember but I shan't to find the song so badly can anyone please help me.
Anonymous 22 October Reply Can you guys help? Crystal 22 October Reply your life's a routine that repeats each day no one cares who you are or what you say and sometimes you feel like your nobody but you can feel like somebody with me. I need to find this song but i can't its a women singing. I've been watching daredevil on Netflix. Season three just came out and I've been binge watching.
There is a song in the background. Dakota Haney 22 October Reply Guys! End of days by Zachary kibbee. I remember the music video being a guy with long curly hair in a guitar having a time machine and singing with his guitar, going into the past to help this other younger boy maybe himself ask out this girl. Any suggestions of what song this might be? John steele 23 October Reply Song at Shameless - down like a titanic around minute Anonymous 23 October Reply ive got a song i cant find the name of: It played on the radio and it sounded like a deep voiced black male not rapping saying "i love her".
There was also a woman singing in between but i couldnt make out what she was saying. Ive been searching on youtube and google but all the songs are by chris brown and the beetles. Lily 23 October Reply Looking for a song, male singer. Only know random bits of the song. I'm searching for a song that goes like this: I fall in love, there's something about you, i wish you were mine.
And if i only could be there to hold you, it feels like i stop breating when you're around. I'm in love, there's something about you, i wish you were mine. Trina 24 October Reply Think you heard that song the same place I did! I can't find it either! Pearl mckernan 24 October Reply Am looking for a song I heard in turkey just knew the lyrics I heard was oh my god and it's by a female played it when they where doing entertement stuff.
Anonymous 24 October Reply "take me home i've been too long in this world to watch it go"? Right at the end of the song, guy singing.
Every eerie voice of a female singer maybe African American and eerie instrumental as well. The lyrics are about dreaming and realitys or something arather and the beat and vocal tempo is..
La lala la la lala, La lala la la lala, Do dodo do do do do do doo. I've been desperately searching for a song for years now, I can remember most of its lyrics but no results anywhere so far.
Please if you know tell me immediately. This song is sung by a girl. I have listened to it around mostly, guess it became popular around that time. You can do it hard cause you got me in heat. I know you're thinking that I am some silly girl You don't know me at all, boy I'll rock your world I want to play a game, tell me what's your name cause, tell me what's your name cause I want to play a game" I placed dots where I don't remember.
I'm around 80 percent sure of the first four rows, 95 percent of the others. Thanks in advance anyone for any help! Anonymous 25 October Reply It's an upbeat song that a guy sings that goes iiii over and over again and like to see you move like this. What's it called lol?
Anonymous 25 October Reply Hi I'm looking for a 90's alternative song that goes like this: She told me when she's coming home again. Moved last summer with her mommy. Daddy's dating another man. I want to be king of the world. I want you to be queen for a day. Anonymous 25 October Reply cant remember the old song, it was like the girl had a crush on a man, and the man went away one day. Looking for a slow 50s song, with lyrics "Like the stars above us, On the milky way.
She lights up the sky All my troubles away Marjo 26 October Reply Could it be Shy? Sara khan 25 October Reply All of the things that i wish i could tell you everytime when you passin me by.
I fall in love, there's something about you, i wish you were mine Anonymous 25 October Reply I heard this very slow and sad song in dance class. I know for sure that the song is by an African American man. I tried to hear his lyrics but I was too focused to pay attention. The man had strong vocals. Plooty 26 October Reply Hi im searching for a song where there is this one guy that sings and around him happens a lot of stuff like a woman kissing him and stuff. Tony 26 October Reply Help!! This song came out between Post grunge rock sound.
I love this song and can only remember a few words. Fortlock 26 October Reply Hey guys! I'm looking for a song I've heard many times on the radio but I'm not sure of the lyrics. I just know that the song is sung by a female singer, it's sung in English, the singer seems to be American or British because she sings in English very well, and that the song starts with an instrumental and ends with the singer singing the last verse a bit slowly.
Ah, the speed with which the singer sings the music increases with each stanza. Like, the chorus is sung a little quick and very loud, as if the singer is screaming.
I say in a part of the song there is a "oh, ooh, ooh, oooh! That's all I know about the song. Faith Reaper - I hope that knowing the risks will encourage everyone to reach out and connect a little more with people they know and those they don't. It doesn't take great effort -- just a smile and a kind word can do wonders sometimes. Thank you for sharing. Have a wonderful day!
Wow, Flourish, I published a hub on this very subject several years ago but without the great playlist! Social isolation is indeed a killer, just as you've outlined here. Lonliness is so hard and one can be lonely even in a crowded room I had forgotten about a lot of these songs. There are so many good ones. The one that hit me this night is "I miss My Friend", not because of any romance of course, but just missing the friendship. Friendship is a special kind of love.
I will dedicate it to my friend: Will share to get the important message out about the serious health risks associated with loneliness or isolation.
The song is told from the perspective of the regretful man who was once her partner until he betrayed her: Health Risks Associated with Loneliness. He tells a sad tale, but I don't feel sorry for him. The cheater got what was coming to him. Anxious not to let his past define his future! He needs to look forward! Suddenly the whole world seems in love, and he's on the outside looking in: This country ballad is about a couple that has grown so far apart that they don't even know one another any longer: Can You Die of Loneliness?
Worse yet, he doesn't know how to make his way back: Shake it off, sister. Ain't no one worth making a mess of yourself like that.
Just show up, even if you don't feel up to it. Go to meetings, movies, restaurants, the library -- by yourself. Look for ways to fill your life with positive vibes. The negativity of loneliness can make you feel cynical, negative, and judgmental.
Read, write, or engage in a hobby that fulfills you. Or take up a new hobby. Share your creativity with others e. Do an unexpected favor for a neighbor or acquaintance going through a tough time e. Do you have a useful strategy for fighting loneliness? Share it with us in the Comments Section below! Know a song about loneliness and isolation that should be on our playlist?
Leave us a suggestion in the Comments Section below. Questions must be on-topic, written with proper grammar usage, and understandable to a wide audience. Hey, My oldest sister died a few days ago from emphysema.
Thanks for setting up the site! Cmatelin - I hope you and Chet get the togetherness you're seeking. Mona - Thanks for the song suggestion and kind compliment. I will add the song as 86! Noor - If you have a black cat, then you're not truly alone, are you? Shyron - Thank you for your suggestion! You're a wealth of songs about so many topics. I was just watching the Highwaymen on public television and they sang Johnny Cash's "Sunday Morning Coming Down" verse There is nothing short of dying that is half as lonesome as the sound of a sleeping city sidewalk and Sunday Morning Coming Down This a great song for this one.
Shyron - Thank you for all of your suggestions! I just remembered a couple more songs should on this play list. One is Loretta Lynn's "When Lonely Hits Your Heart" Here I am a doing things I said I'd never do But that's before my baby said we're through It was on that tragic day the hurtin' got its start That's how it is when lonely hits your heart And Connie Smith's -- "Blue Little Girl" The more love he gave me the more love I asked him to give and not for one moment did my foolish heart think of him then one day he turned and slowly walked out of my world.
Few others came closer than this haunting version by Patsy Cline She dont love you is a fav of mine despite Angels are on the way to you ps. Beautiful music touching one's heart and pulling one's tears from where one hides them. MsDora - Thank you for stopping by. Glad you enjoyed this. Have a lovely week. FlourishAnyway, You amaze me by your knowledge. Thanks for compiling this list.
Greater inflammatory responses to stress. Elevated blood pressure and levels of cortisol the stress hormone. Volunteer your time and talents. There are so many charities that need you. Adopt a forever friend from a local animal shelter. Get some exercise at the local gym or outside. The endorphins will make you feel better.
Take time to smile and say something however brief to people throughout your day. Show Me the Meaning of Being Lonely. This is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons. This is used to prevent bots and spam. This is used to detect comment spam. This is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized.
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All alone tonight, I'm calling out your name Somewhere deep inside this part of you remains Images of love Is someone there tonight Holding what was mine?. Anyone can feel the pain of loneliness; here are 10 ways to ease the pain associated with it. All of my books are available in audio format from Amazon, exposition-universelle-paris-1900.com, and iTunes. I'm active on Facebook, Pinterest, and Twitter. I did that in the pouring rain tonight wearing a bright hoodie and no. Make an I'm So Lonely Playlist using these pop, rock and country songs. If you're With almost billion people in the world, how could anyone be lonely? Many of us Your browser does not currently recognize any of the video formats available. Click here Don't Let Me Be Lonely Tonight.