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Maybe Hollywood is tapping into the ancestral female animal instinct to choose the mightiest, strongest, toughest genes for their offspring. Whatever the reason, in Hollywood, it's the bad boys the girls want. The "bad boy" targets the strongest womanly instincts: All this, of course, tends to gloss over the fact that bad boys are bad , meaning criminally inclined, self-centered , probably not too mentally stable , potentially abusive, might have trouble keeping a legal job, and will most likely be more interested in the physical read: He's also probably not going to be that concerned with fidelity, either.
So what if he can't be trusted? It's an honor for girls in media to be chosen by him, to walk into prom night with him on her arm, to ride on the back of his motorcycle with her arms around his waist, to stick her tongue out at the Alpha Bitch from the passenger's seat of his stolen convertible. Depending on the nature of the Bad Boy and whether he's redeemable or not, use of this trope may cause the viewer to question the character's sense or intelligence, particularly if it's immediately obvious to everyone from the outset of the relationship that the man is a thoroughly nasty piece of work.
If the bad boy and or the girl are unimportant characters, they have a tendency to be Straw Characters. This portrayal can sometimes be the product of Entitled to Have You , Standard Hero Reward or Nice Guys Finish Last on the part of good guy we're supposed to root for or the audience or the author.
This bad boy is made to be a foil and show how "undesirable" the other options are. This can backfire if there are female audience members who have something else in mind. Ironically, their Fix Fic is likely to 1 make the bad boy look better and 2 make the nice guy look worse. Sometimes the badness is an Informed Attribute , such as with the Lovable Rogue. It all depends on what the author wants to use this trope for.
It's entirely possible for someone to look like a bad boy but not fit the above description. Sometimes a supposed bad boy who really isn't has to deal with the advances of a hyperactive Fangirl who doesn't know when to cut it out resulting in comedy at the "bad boy's" expense. Interestingly, younger women are often portrayed as prone to this trope, while older, more mature, and wiser women meaning 35 and older seem much less receptive to "bad boy" vibes maybe they learnt their lesson through painful experience or are simply mature enough to know better , although there are always exceptions especially bored housewifes with marital issues.
Can be portrayed as being either savvy or if the bad boy falls into the not really a bad boy category especially if he is a main character as a overly protective but well meaning mother figure for the girl.
For really bad bad boys , the Girl either intentionally or not may find herself becoming a Monster Fangirl or a Love Martyr at worst. The girl may also go to the other end and find what they are looking for is the Nice Guy because Single Woman Seeks Good Man —particularly as a Second Love , and often via Just Friends , when they've been burned by their previous boyfriend.
A popular subversion is to make the guy look like a bad guy but revealing himself as a Jerk with a Heart of Gold with little to no criminal record. The fandom reaction version of this is Draco in Leather Pants. A male Sexier Alter Ego will probably be one of these. When the bad boy is literally a monster, see You Sexy Beast. Contrast Adorkable and Weakness Turns Her On , where more timid, sweet, and "uncool" characters are seen as attractive.
Hybristophilia is this trope taken Up to Eleven. You need to login to do this. Get Known if you don't have an account. Be my bad boy. Be my weekend lover, but don't be my friend. An advertisement for a brand of high-heeled shoes said shoes were like men. The card Princess Diana of Themiscyra, i. In Crisis Mode, Black Canary is the only character who can add Villains to her deck under normal circumstances. Possibly subverted with Tauriel in The Hobbit: Her ability also relies on Villains called Enemies here , but with the intention of using them as Bulletproof Human Shields.
In the mids, the romance between then-high school sweethearts Wally Winkerbean and Becky Blackburn. Becky was heavily involved with music and drama, but her heart fell for a guy that struggled in school and often drank and partied on the weekends. Played with in these two Dilbert comics. Ink Pen 's Scrappy Lad spends a week trying go bad to win over Moxie. He and Hammock discuss the trope.
The short of it is that the dangerous aspects of the target are sexual advertisements. According to the documentary, on a biological level, women are looking for signs of protective prowess IE: Displays of aggressive behavior are then read as signs of this prowess cultural signs of this vary greatly, but the intended messages are the same.
Once partnered up, however, the female will actively work to prevent the male from displaying further the "redeeming" aspect of this trope , so as to prevent the male from gathering further attention from the opposite sex. There's a lot more to human courtship, of course, mostly because, unlike other primates alive today, sex among humans lasts more than 8 seconds.
Brought up in song in Lady and the Tramp: In Classical Mythology , Aphrodite's passionate and lasting affair with the dangerous, bloodthirsty war-god Ares makes this trope Older Than Feudalism.
The fact that her husband Hephaestus was deformed and disabled and the marriage wasn't even her idea didn't help matters. Jeff Foxworthy mocked and Deconstructed this trope at the same time. He said that when women say they want a "dangerous" guy, they're usually thinking of some James Bond -type of dude, but if a woman did end up with a "dangerous" man, then the likeliest outcome would have them on an episode of Cops with her hanging out of the trailer in a tube top, screaming "Lock his ass up!
He has also recorded a song about it: Both have a decidedly bitter tone. Russell Kane calls it "Attracted to Bastard disease" after noticing the trope becoming a cliche on every reality dating TV show he's ever seen and is worried that it's seeping into real life since he has a daughter , what with men in their twenties throughout the s becoming arrogant and vain over getting a Heroic Build. Glen Foster, aka "That Canadian Guy", says that someone once told him that girls may be attracted to bad boys initially, but they don't stay with the bad boys.
Glen interprets this as a double benefit. Ryo, the main character, is a gruff guy with a bad reputation and a troubled past who sleeps through school enough to put his graduation in jeopardy. However, the girls like him The player can try to start a relationship with the local Bad Dad Robert, but in the Good Ending, Robert will admit that he isn't in a good place, emotionally or psychologically and wants to focus on rebuilding the bridge between himself and his daughter, asking the player to give him time to fix himself up so they can start an actually healthy relationship in the future and staying Just Friends until there.
Among the dateable characters, Damien is actively described as a bad boy, he is a demon and an arsonist that loves to cause mayhem and destruction. Yo-Jin-Bo has Tatsunami Ittosai as one of your possible options. He actually betrays the heroine to the villains, becoming The Mole for a substantial section of the game , but can be redeemed courtesy of the Power of Trust , and has some of the most emotional endings in the game. One of them even calls her 'Bitch-chan'. It's intended to be fanservice for girls who do want bad boys.
Subverted in Shall We Date?:
Because the boys are already bad, so they want some thing good, so they like good girls You are asking a question like "why do girls good and bad like douche bags" - the world will never know Shy girls tend to put out a vibe, that most guys tend to misread, as her not wanting to have anything to him, or worse that she flat out dislikes him.
A lot of bad boys, have have more confidence to go after any girl, including ones that seem to dislike him. Also some of the bad boys, think of it as a game, to see if he has what it takes to corrupt a good girl, or to win the affections of a girl that doesn't like him.
That's because opposites attract and complement each other, as they always say. I have the same problem! I'm a virgin, and introvert as well, but I always get these gangster type guys into me.
There is something that is alluring about the innocence to them, I think its an ego thing. It's like a challenge for them, and it boosts their ego if they can get a sweet girl to go bad. Well that could be it too, of course. Everyone is an individual, and may have their own reasons. Not every "bad guy" is the same.
But perhaps you are really pretty, and not having been with many people, the bad guys are the one with the confidence to get with you whilst the shy guys probably feel like they don't stand a chance.
The real dirty ones though see nice girls as easy targets.. Or maybe, even bad guys want a girl who will treat them well unlike the usual bitches they go for: Because "bad guys" are called that usually because they like games, playing gullible girls and easily get laid. But when they see a girl that is refreshing for them. To them you have selfrespect, you're something different from what they've seen, you're a hard task.
I don't say that as in necessarily meaning you're just a task to them lol not but from psychological point of view it must have this effect on them at first.
Also girls like you are considered serious human and those type of guys enjoy being introduced to that cause it's sorta new for them well not all but most. Well, at least I do. Bad boys are total studs. Personality is important, and bad boys are jerks. The difference is they will be balding and have a beer belly.
As a good girl, your parents may have raised you to not bring home someone who blatantly lives on the bad side. So why are you attracted to Billy Joe Bad Boy? Eve wanted the forbidden fruit, and good girls want the forbidden men. But bad boys are forbidden for a reason: Most bad boys make no excuses for who they are.
They can do bad all by themselves, and they take pride in it. Bad boys drink beer, smoke cigarettes, ride motorcycles, drive cars, do everything in a cool manner—and they know that. Because several other women want them—and they know that. Good girl and bad boy. What starts as a bet, ends as something real. But this one is different. Bad girl Park Soyi is given a bet. Make studious good guy, Kim Seokjin, fall in love with her. And then, break his heart.
But matters of the heart aren't just a game. Add to library 80 Discussion 25 Browse more Humor Romance. Sky was smart, athletic, driven, and invisible to her peers. One week before the start of school, she met a dark-haired boy on the beach, who was charming, funny, handsome, and smart.
Add to library 4, Discussion Browse more Romance Realistic. When the Masons came to live with the Elnes for 6 months, Devin and Danny Daniella are stuck together as roommates. Danny absolutely hates Devin, and he's just a 'good' bad boy. What happens when Danny's nightmares start again and Devin decides to be her protector? Everyone you ever loved now frozen in death.
But what if it didn't have to be that way? What if you could change it? Hermione Granger is on a mission: Add to library Discussion 36 Browse more Action Romance. Add to library 46 Discussion 35 Browse more Romance Realistic. Amadora Richards keeps to herself. She has a fierce side that Sebastian Johnston, the hot bad boy only sees. When her number is slipped in his pocket they begin to talk using fake names. And Sebastian seems like he is falling for Amadora.
A lot of bad boys, have have more confidence to go after any girl, including ones that seem to dislike him. Also some of the bad boys, think of it as a game, to see if he has what it takes to corrupt a good girl, or to win the affections of a girl that doesn't like him. Good girl falls in love with bad boy, changes him, they work it out, yada yada yada. Sorry to say, my life isn't like that, which is too bad because in that way I could at least be somewhat normal. But then, I never was a traditionalist. Good girls date bad boys. But dating a guy with poor character, even if he pursues you, still equals a poor relationship. Ladies, this does not mean that you should date a man who is boring.