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In my opinion, this is the most over looked, mistaken, and most mis-represented person in the BDSM culture as most others have a voice…. Personally, I have come to find out and conclude that male hetero-sexual submissives are not allowed to be themselves in the community. Because apparently, society as a whole, including the BDSM culture at large, have made it so these men cannot come out of the proverbial closet to be themselves in the BDSM culture.
What is the reasoning for this? For shame, people, for shame. And people say here say that they are open minded within the BDSM community…. What is a legitimate reason why?
So, now I ask the community as a whole…please tell me, please explain to me, with a mature and logical argument why submissive hetero-sexual males are not accepted in BDSM culture. If there is no reason, then people need to re-examine their beliefs and themelves, for their hypocricies. And I say that with the nicest of intentions and with the sweetest of smiles, of course…. So I ask, so what, if a male submissive has emotions where they want to express themselves to their Dominant female?
So what if a male wants to submit to a female? Who are you to judge? So what, if they like to be beaten? You like to beat your submissive too. So what, if male submissives want to talk about things that most males cannot talk about, but females can? So what, if they…so on and so forth… Who are you to judge?
You do things against societal norms as well. You do things that break the law as well. You do things that go against moral codes as well.
As a matter of fact, I believe male hetero-sexual submissives are stronger than most because they are able to admit to themselves within this society that they are what they are, going against the grain. So the next time someone wants to say a male submissive is a pansy…maybe they should really look within because the fact is, that person would never be able to handle that reality themselves….
I could go on…but I think I have made my points very clear…. In my opinion, the most mis-judged female…. You ignorant, self-absorbed, egotistical, oxygen thief. And you wonder why FemDoms are always pissed off and take offense to and at most male Dominants? You wonder why most FemDoms get ready to do battle when a male Dom when they walk into the room? Once again, if you looked outside of the social and societal norms of what you were raised with, maybe, just maybe, you would see that we, just like you; have our own preferences.
How would you like it, if every FemDom you met said the same to you every first meeting you had with them? Now you know how we as Female Dominants feel.
Not every FemDom is a paid Dominatrix!!! Just as the male hetero-sexual submissives are often, misunderstood, so often to are the Female Dominants; especially ones who are NOT dominatrixes.
All too often, if a Female is a Dominant, she is automatically classified as a Dominatrix and that is not always the case and some take great offense to it. While some females choose to do BDSM as a profession, which is their choice, others, like myself, choose to never go down that path and are offended when it is even mentioned. Because, personally, I do not need to sell my physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual self in order to complete or follow my BDSM journey.
If others do, that is their path, but for people like me, we do not want to be lumped into the category of a Dominatrix as we find it to be their path and not ours. In reference, that would be like calling a Dominant a submissive. It is quite upsetting to the receiver and quite unwanted and unwarranted, unless trying to upset the person.
I play with my boys and girls because I want to, because I crave them, because they crave me, because of our relationship, because of our connections, because…etc…. I do not play because I need to pay a bill or because of a paycheck. I do not play to work. This is not work. BDSM is play to me. BDSM is a release to me. BDSM is fun to me. BDSM is a joy to me. To me, and to Females like me, professional work is not anything remotely near in sight and the thought of it not only disgusts our thought process for us to do for ourselves not for others to do for it is their choice ; that it would never be a remote possibility to happen with me or people like me.
However, I turned them down because of my morals and ethical values for me personally could not handle the implications afterwards mentally or emotionally. Personally, I cannot handle it. I am not made to make money while manipulating people. Personally, my biggest issue, as I have stated before is the married males who go to professionals to cheat on their wives and all who participate. That is my biggest issue of them all, but I digress. However, back to the issues at hand; not all Females who are Dominant are professionals and those who are not take offense and rightly so as they and I have not sold ourselves for money, to put it simply.
The way I look at it, and I do not look at it as all do, so this is me; I have not had someone played by me, pay me, and then go wack off in front of me or after I am done with them.
Anyone I have played with, there was a balanced and shared form of energy between the two of us and no money exchanged hands or dressers ; we just enjoyed the other fully.
The experience was purely for that…the experience…the way I believe it should be. Thank you for your time, and have a nice day. Sign in Get started. Home People News Events. Never miss a story from Leatherati Online , when you sign up for Medium. Get updates Get updates.
All his friends and enemies know at once that this miserable creature has sunk as low as it is possible for it to go.
The the Sublime Lady adds to the humiliation by kicking the animal, only to have it kiss the toe of Her cruel boot in final token of its absolute submission. I agree withy you about feminization is a reward and not a punishment. I might add that she has another submissive living with us. As Al, I am as much her slave as he is. At those times I am also his Mistress.
Love the part where she makes him wear a bra under his white shirt and sweater, whilst out in public, with his constant awareness, excitement and anxiety of his femininity and that she has the power to expose him, if he misbehaves, at any given time. Off course, she would make him wear a very vivid colour or black bra, frilly, lacy or satin that would definitely show up under his white shirt.
Perhaps, she would also touch and feel the outline his bra cups, straps and band over his man clothes to make him more aware of his vulnerability. All men should be made to wear a bra! I liked the story too. Sending your man out wearing a bra? Have him wear crotch less panties, he cant forget who is in charge as he will feel uncomfortable all day long or have him wear a pair of your old knickers nylon or Silk with very loose elastic!
Good luck girls x. After a few days of wearing her panties I started to object so she said I was going to be punished and would have to wear her nighties to bed. After wearing her panties and nighties for about a week, she decided that we needed to go shopping and get me my own panties and nighties.
I objected, when she told the sales lady that we were buying panties and nighties for me, she said that I needed another punishment. After shopping for my new langerie, she said we were going to a department store to get me a whole new outfit since I could not be nice enough to let her have some fun buying me some new things.
She said if I continued to be disagreeable she would really teach me a lesson. I knew she was really angry with me so I told her whatever she wanted me to do would be fine.
She kept asking me if I liked different ones. It was pink with fluffy short sleeves and had lots of lace on it. She was very pleased with me when I said that I liked it. Then she said we would need to find a cute skirt to go with it and some cute shoes and a purse that would look nice with it.
I was horrified but knew I better not say a word. She found a cute skirt that came about 3 inches above my knee.
It was plaid and had pleats all around it. It reminded me of a skirt that girls wore to Catholic schools. She had me try on the blouse and skirt and said I looked adorable in it. Next thing I new, we were in the shoe department where she found me a pair of really cute Mary Jane style shoes. Next was my purse, which she said I would need to carry all my things in.
As she bought me all these things she told each sales girl that they were for me. I was sooo humiliated that I could not speak. As we were leaving the store we passed through the cosmetics department. She stopped to talk to the sales clerk for a minute. After she spoke to the women, she told me to sit on the stool that was next to the counter.
She proceded to get some lipstick from the counter and as she started to put it on me she told me that my wife explained to her how I wanted to bring my feminine side out and that I just bought a really cute skirt and blouse. She applied the hot pink lipstick to my lips and then told me to look in the mirror to see how nice it looked.
I was shocked how bright it was. My wife told the clerk we would take it and she told me to pay the nice lady for it. She then said fairly loud, we need to hurry and get me home so I could put my new skirt and blouse on, so we would not be late to meet her girlfriend for dinner. I was very nervous and could not believe she was taking me out to dinner to meet with her friend Dianne. My wife said that eventually she wants me to wear dresses and skirts all the time, including to work.
I am sure this is my new life, which I am beginning to enjoy. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. No one should presume that there way is the best way. Leave that to the folks at the nearby Baptist church. Generalizations are shallow, unsatisfactory. But the men who claim that Female Led Relationships however you want to define that phrase are better than mere Femdom which is usally the same thing anyway but without pompous adorement.
The female supreiority fans are the worst offenders. Hypnotized, letting themselves find vaidation in the words of profiteers. These gulllible, silly guys whould be shocked to find male supremacists and Goreans making the same claim for their orientation. Here is an extract:. The reason I am so much in favour of face slapping and even when just briefly reprimanding him emphasise my words with a slap or two is that it not only causes pain, if done correctly, but really catches his full attention and embarrasses him and neither from the pain nor from embarrassment it offers him any protection.
How can something as low as a man be shamed. There is no deeper shame than being a member of the inferior gender. Nothing is too base or painful for the inferior gender. Are we first that far, and it will happen within the next couple of generations, we will of course look at men as utilities we keep for different purposes: They are there to be used as it suits us and to attract our interest they will need to adjust not only their physical appearances but also improve their manners and attitudes dramatically from what is typical today.
When men are liberated from all the responsibilities they are too childish to meet, limited and restricted by structures and norms and in all things depending on women it will be only natural for women but also for males to look at the male sex as created only for the purpose of being subservient and beneficial utilities for the females. This will be even more obvious when science makes the male completely unnecessary and also unwanted in the process of breeding.
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Not that I have an argument with the romantic who feels the luckiest person alive. BDSM is not inferior. Originally posted With or Without Romantic Love?
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This glossary is a guide to many of the terms you might hear in the BDSM community. Not everyone who is involved with BDSM is into everything listed here; many of . “Feminization” means making a member of the inferior sub-male gender look like one of the Superior Higher Entities (SHE). It’s like putting a crown on a commoner: not an embarrassment, not a humiliation, not a punishment, but an honor — certainly an undeserved one, however. DOMINANT FEMALE SUBMISSIVE MALE: A simple guide for a submissive male to find the Mistress of his dreams and for a female to understand the power she has. - Kindle edition by Sophia James. Download it once and read it on your Kindle device, PC, phones or tablets. Use features like bookmarks, note taking and highlighting while reading DOMINANT FEMALE SUBMISSIVE MALE: A simple guide .